Could a Man Be a "Great Catch" and Still Be Horrible With Dating? (Asians, woman)

[BirdieBelle]

Originally Posted by brantleygilbert

I make friends every single place I go, every single place. I always have


am I saying this in Spanish?

Well, you certainly have an unending supply of black man GIFs at the ready.

Look, son. You're doing it wrong. You are apparently exuding an attitude that repels the women you want most.

Or ... perhaps ... you aren't actually in the league you **think** you're in.

I also don't think you're 5'10".

[brantleygilbert]

Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life

Well, you certainly have an unending supply of black man GIFs at the ready.

Or ... perhaps ... you aren't actually in the league you **think** you're in.

I posted a picture on the second page


My face looks much much better than that in real life and I'm about 20 lbs more lean and toned now but you get a rough idea. I dunno, I feel like I'm pretty realistic...I'm willing to date someone less attractive than myself but there's a limit. I'm not attracted to overweight women

[brantleygilbert]

Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life

I also don't think you're 5'10".

I definitely am, a doctor even measured it at my last health screening


I'm just very thick/wide in the upper body so I tend to appear a little shorter

[Dewdroplet76]

Originally Posted by TabulaRasa

Eh. If you had your social skills down pat, this thread (or the one before it, or any of the ones you've started under other usernames about the same thing) wouldn't even exist. Think about it.

Quit talking nonsense. He's pretty much perfect.

[jaypee]

Originally Posted by Dewdroplet76

So, basically, you are totally hot, amazingly awesome, and everybody loves you - except for the very few women that you think you deserve. Got it.

I think that's what they said about Ted Bundy as well.

[brantleygilbert]

Originally Posted by Dewdroplet76

So, basically, you are totally hot, amazingly awesome, and everybody loves you - except for the very few women that you think you deserve. Got it.

sort of


except it's not "very few women". I see lots and lots of women I'm attracted to

[brantleygilbert]

Originally Posted by MissClutterbuck

Well actually you are the one who is saying that. You admitted that they don't want to date you.

If the top 10 percent don't want you, are you really so shallow that the next five percent aren't good enough for you? (According to your math, of course.)

I said 10% because 50% of society is men and 40% are women who are too old/too young/married

[brantleygilbert]

Originally Posted by TabulaRasa

Eh. If you had your social skills down pat

It's not a question of social skills



the real problem is that women don't make themselves available to me and I find it very hard to overcome the 50,000 obstacles in the way most of the time when I see a female I like


Maybe I'm just not assertive enough? It's just difficult. I hate rejection...the whole process is a pain in the ass for me

[BirdieBelle]

Originally Posted by brantleygilbert

I posted a picture on the second page


My face looks much much better than that in real life and I'm about 20 lbs more lean and toned now but you get a rough idea. I dunno, I feel like I'm pretty realistic...I'm willing to date someone less attractive than myself but there's a limit. I'm not attracted to overweight women

I saw the photos. "Attractive" is relative.

Why don't you tell us what you really, deep down, think the problem is.

[TabulaRasa]

Originally Posted by brantleygilbert

I posted a picture on the second page

Point being?

You seem to think you are or should be everyone's taste.

Reality would seem to bear out that that doesn't really appear to be the case, though. Or, as noted, your thread(s) wouldn't exist.