Is it normal that I never feel sad after break ups (lover, dance)

[fleetiebelle]

Originally Posted by The Dissenter

Not to me. No feelings, no devastation. Sounds like a decent deal to me.

Not so great a deal to a woman dating a guy who has no feelings and doesn't care. That in itself would be dealbreaker.

[Katiethegreat]

I was very nuturing and loving to these guys,they were good relationships so its a bit sad that I didn't care when they ended.

[BirdieBelle]

Originally Posted by Katiethegreat

I was very nuturing and loving to these guys,they were good relationships so its a bit sad that I didn't care when they ended.

Because it's just part of the game. Apparently you do it as part of the role-playing, how YOU want them to see YOU, not for how it makes THEM feel.

[rbohm]

Originally Posted by Katiethegreat

Every break up I can think of that I've had I get over it the next day,the one months ago I never thought of him again,I wasn't upset.I admit usually it's me doing the breaking up so maybe that's why.
But even with a recent break up where I was deeply in love with the person and didn't want it to end I've moved on the next day,all I feel is huge gratitude that I had the person for all that time,I think of them but there's no heartbreak.

you came to the same realization i did years ago, every relationship is temporary in nature, as such they all end at one point or another. that being the case, there is no need to waste time on wondering what went wrong, how can i get them back, why did this happen, etc. accept it and move on.

[Katiethegreat]

No,wrong ,I'm very loving and genuinely loved them and cared for them for some reason I just move on straight away.

Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life

Because it's just part of the game. Apparently you do it as part of the role-playing, how YOU want them to see YOU, not for how it makes THEM feel.

[BirdieBelle]

Originally Posted by Katiethegreat

No,wrong ,I'm very loving and genuinely loved them and cared for them for some reason I just move on straight away.

That's not AT ALL what is portrayed in your previous posts about other men.

You made them sound like dishes on a buffet table.

[Katiethegreat]

Hehehe lol

Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life

That's not AT ALL what is portrayed in your previous posts about other men.

You made them sound like dishes on a buffet table.

[BirdieBelle]

Originally Posted by Katiethegreat

Hehehe lol

Yeah, it's hilarious.

You get bored, you see another one that looks good, you move on.

Not love.

[thekilljoy]

Originally Posted by Katiethegreat

Every break up I can think of that I've had I get over it the next day,the one months ago I never thought of him again,I wasn't upset.I admit usually it's me doing the breaking up so maybe that's why.
But even with a recent break up where I was deeply in love with the person and didn't want it to end I've moved on the next day,all I feel is huge gratitude that I had the person for all that time,I think of them but there's no heartbreak.

Sounds like antisocial personality disorder to me.

[Fargobound]

My suggestion is that you stop listening to Taylor Swift.