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Old 09-18-2015, 03:40 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Sonic_Spork View Post
I used the club as an example, because you brought it up first. No, you do not have to join a club.

You know what, OP? You seem to have some critical thinking and comprehension hurdles. I revise what I said. Forget about dating. Forget about women. Put it all aside. You have more important things to do right now, like getting educated. Kind of why you're in college, right? Focus on that. You'll meet a great lady to go on dates with sooner or later, so stop letting it distract you right now.

Or just walk up to every woman you see and ask if she wants to go on a date. Or join a dating site and just spam every woman on there with "Hey, how r u?" It's a numbers game, right?

Nevermind. Good luck man.
So is online dating better ?
look im just tired of all the friendzone crap and just putting in way too much time for someones thats not potientally interested in dating i have enough friends to do plenty of things on some weekends
So apparently i have to be forced to join a club or some frat just to meet woman or take way too much time to invest on someone whos probably not interested is alot of annoying work i personally want to talk to someone who is interested in dating but
Tuesday and thrusday i have classes back to back and i only get one hour of break in between classes which are 5 of them
I dont have time time to join any other extracirricular thing because that will just take up my weekends and homework/personal time

And no i dont mean cut off someones head i mean cut off communication im not interested in all that social circle stuff because i have enough buddies to hang out with on the weekend
Monday thru thrusday are my busiet days i work and go to school and have a 3 day weekend only to go out on dates

So is online dating or something else more quicker and a better option rather than hitting on every single random girl in college until eventually i get a yes?
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Old 09-18-2015, 03:43 PM
 
Location: Corydon, IN
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Have you tried hitting them? Not like in the face or anything, more just that Captain Kirk judo-chop to the neck. They're pretty accommodating after that.
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Old 09-18-2015, 03:43 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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So i just join a club and be like hey i join this club just to meet woman
So would you like to go on a date with me ?
Please tell us you don't walk up to a strange woman and actually say, "will you go on a date with me?"
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Old 09-18-2015, 03:49 PM
 
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So is online dating better ?
look im just tired of all the friendzone crap and just putting in way too much time for someones thats not potientally interested in dating i have enough friends to do plenty of things on some weekends
So apparently i have to be forced to join a club or some frat just to meet woman or take way too much time to invest on someone whos probably not interested is alot of annoying work i personally want to talk to someone who is interested in dating but
Tuesday and thrusday i have classes back to back and i only get one hour of break in between classes which are 5 of them
I dont have time time to join any other extracirricular thing because that will just take up my weekends and homework/personal time

And no i dont mean cut off someones head i mean cut off communication im not interested in all that social circle stuff because i have enough buddies to hang out with on the weekend
Monday thru thrusday are my busiet days i work and go to school and have a 3 day weekend only to go out on dates

So is online dating or something else more quicker and a better option rather than hitting on every single random girl in college until eventually i get a yes?

Maybe. What do you have to offer that would make them want to date you?
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Old 09-18-2015, 03:53 PM
 
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Please tell us you don't walk up to a strange woman and actually say, "will you go on a date with me?"
Something like
Well hi my name is ........
How are you...
I seen you somewhere in my dreams
Then somethin like you must be a keyboard because your my type
And then like would you like to go on a date with me because you could be the lime to my corona

And something like

You remind me of a mystical rare mermaid from under the pacific sea
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Old 09-18-2015, 04:03 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Valdimir View Post
Something like
Well hi my name is ........
How are you...
I seen you somewhere in my dreams
Then somethin like you must be a keyboard because your my type
And then like would you like to go on a date with me because you could be the lime to my corona

And something like

You remind me of a mystical rare mermaid from under the pacific sea

I call troll post.
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Old 09-18-2015, 04:21 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Originally Posted by Valdimir View Post
Something like
Well hi my name is ........
How are you...
I seen you somewhere in my dreams
Then somethin like you must be a keyboard because your my type
And then like would you like to go on a date with me because you could be the lime to my corona

And something like

You remind me of a mystical rare mermaid from under the pacific sea




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Old 09-18-2015, 05:06 PM
 
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PMSL a mystical mermaid..!

OP your club is full of women saying to each other "here comes the mermaid guy" lol!
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Old 09-18-2015, 05:10 PM
 
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I wouldn't say it's "selfish" of you to cut off a woman who doesn't want to date you, but it says something very unpleasant about you - that you are regarding them only as potential sex objects, and that your narrow sexual focus may well backfire on you.
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Old 09-18-2015, 05:27 PM
 
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I wouldn't say it's "selfish" of you to cut off a woman who doesn't want to date you, but it says something very unpleasant about you - that you are regarding them only as potential sex objects, and that your narrow sexual focus may well backfire on you.
I mean im just honest what i want is a romantic partner whom i can spend good quality time wit
Im one of those people that gets straight directly to the point

Not that im not capable of bein JUST friends but that is not my motivation nor my desire at all
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