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Old 09-25-2015, 03:26 PM
 
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Can't find love. I feel like girls these days are just looking for a guy with financial stability and a nice butt. I just want a partner in crime. Could care less about her job or her ass.
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Old 09-25-2015, 03:37 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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I haven't given up on it...but I have developed an indifference towards it.

I'm the type of person that would like to really bond with another human being, but so many people I have come across like to play these silly little mind games. Playing hard to get, pretending to be unavailable, parading the other person around like a trophy, etc. There is also a lot of ridiculous roles some folks want you to fall into, and lot's of people are just so much drama anyways. My "somewhat" experience with romance hasn't gone anywhere.

I have gotten to the point where I'm just unwilling and don't want to deal with another person's unnecessary BS. I'm really just going about my life the way I think other people should. There is too much pressure to be in a relationship. It's not something you can just make happen when you want it to. I mean you can, but that doesn't make it a REAL relationship. I think a lot of people have forgotten that.
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Old 09-25-2015, 03:46 PM
 
Location: Queens, NY
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I haven't given up on it...but I have developed an indifference towards it.

I'm the type of person that would like to really bond with another human being, but so many people I have come across like to play these silly little mind games. Playing hard to get, pretending to be unavailable, parading the other person around like a trophy, etc. There is also a lot of ridiculous roles some folks want you to fall into, and lot's of people are just so much drama anyways. My "somewhat" experience with romance hasn't gone anywhere.

I have gotten to the point where I'm just unwilling and don't want to deal with another person's unnecessary BS. I'm really just going about my life the way I think other people should. There is too much pressure to be in a relationship. It's not something you can just make happen when you want it to. I mean you can, but that doesn't make it a REAL relationship. I think a lot of people have forgotten that.
I could almost have written this word for word.
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Old 09-25-2015, 03:48 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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I haven't given up on it...but I have developed an indifference towards it.

I'm the type of person that would like to really bond with another human being, but so many people I have come across like to play these silly little mind games. Playing hard to get, pretending to be unavailable, parading the other person around like a trophy, etc. There is also a lot of ridiculous roles some folks want you to fall into, and lot's of people are just so much drama anyways. My "somewhat" experience with romance hasn't gone anywhere.

I have gotten to the point where I'm just unwilling and don't want to deal with another person's unnecessary BS. I'm really just going about my life the way I think other people should. There is too much pressure to be in a relationship. It's not something you can just make happen when you want it to. I mean you can, but that doesn't make it a REAL relationship. I think a lot of people have forgotten that.

You look like 25 but you talk like a 50 year old. Wow. Respect!
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Old 09-25-2015, 04:15 PM
 
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People are selfish by nature. A relationship is about the other person, but we believe it's all about what they can do to fulfill my needs. No compromise whatsoever.

This is why so many are bankrupt in this department.
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Old 09-25-2015, 04:16 PM
 
Location: Eastern Shore of Maryland
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Heyyy, I just wanted to befriend you. Then I saw that comment. No thanks
That's OK, no problem. I know a lot of guys may not like what I posted, but they haven't shown me much in years. Women don't have that much to choose from anymore, and treat women like crap. I stand by that comment. Sorry if you don't like it, but to each his own.
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Old 09-25-2015, 04:25 PM
 
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What are you talking about? Plenty of people have found love with themselves.
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Old 09-25-2015, 04:26 PM
 
Location: Eastern Shore of Maryland
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Originally Posted by Auraliea View Post
I haven't given up on it...but I have developed an indifference towards it.

I'm the type of person that would like to really bond with another human being, but so many people I have come across like to play these silly little mind games. Playing hard to get, pretending to be unavailable, parading the other person around like a trophy, etc. There is also a lot of ridiculous roles some folks want you to fall into, and lot's of people are just so much drama anyways. My "somewhat" experience with romance hasn't gone anywhere.

I have gotten to the point where I'm just unwilling and don't want to deal with another person's unnecessary BS. I'm really just going about my life the way I think other people should. There is too much pressure to be in a relationship. It's not something you can just make happen when you want it to. I mean you can, but that doesn't make it a REAL relationship. I think a lot of people have forgotten that.

Good attitude. Why change to become what you think another may want. You will fid some one who wants you as you are, with all your good points and bad points. That's the way it should be. Two people shoud compliment each other, and be the best of friends too.
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Old 09-25-2015, 04:29 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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That's OK, no problem. I know a lot of guys may not like what I posted, but they haven't shown me much in years. Women don't have that much to choose from anymore, and treat women like crap. I stand by that comment. Sorry if you don't like it, but to each his own.
Who are you to be shown anything?

The women aren't exactly providing a great selection for our generation either. Many women do not show respect to men at all. A lot of the time when we try to be decent human beings to them all we get is attitude. Even holding the door we get the "you think I can't open a door for myself?" garbage.
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Old 09-25-2015, 04:30 PM
 
Location: TN
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I wonder what the stats are for this who have found more than one love?
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