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Old 01-30-2016, 11:47 AM
 
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OP, if you are looking for casual and discreet relationships, please consider getting a vasectomy. Why would you want to be discreet with a woman whom you've been with for 14 years?
Which is why I'm calling shenanigans on this whole thread. No man with half a brain in his head who doesn't want marriage or kids will be with someone for 14 years without getting a vasectomy.

Well, unless he's a narcissist and can't bear the thought of altering his precious golden gonads.
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Old 01-30-2016, 11:47 AM
 
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But you were at the hospital?
Naturally, we went there together.
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Old 01-30-2016, 11:48 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Naturally, we went there together.
At least you did one thing right.
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Old 01-30-2016, 11:48 AM
 
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OP, if you are looking for casual and discreet relationships, please consider getting a vasectomy. Why would you want to be discreet with a woman whom you've been with for 14 years?
Huh? We had an established relationship, she got to know my family and I got to know hers, we have many friends in common, we spend holidays together, etc.

People are speaking like I've kept her in a prison cell.
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Old 01-30-2016, 11:51 AM
 
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At least you did one thing right.
You thought I was going to abandon her on a such delicate moment?
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Old 01-30-2016, 11:53 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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You thought I was going to abandon her on a such delicate moment?
Yes. After all, just a few days before, you told her that you didn't think the baby was even yours. And before that, you told her that you would never live with her or marry her even after she had the baby. And before that you pressured her to get an abortion.
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Old 01-30-2016, 11:54 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I know. Absolutely heartbreaking. I've known several women that had to go through this.
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Old 01-30-2016, 11:58 AM
 
Location: between Mars and Venus
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The positive thing out of this now is probably you get to enjoy your personal space for good.
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Old 01-30-2016, 12:01 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Huh? We had an established relationship, she got to know my family and I got to know hers, we have many friends in common, we spend holidays together, etc.

People are speaking like I've kept her in a prison cell.
Probably because you made a big deal that you are NOT in a relationship. "Just casual," remember????

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My girlfriend and I have been together for 14 years but it's kind of open relationship. The rules always were that we would never live together since I'm very protective of my personal space and we could see other as long as it was just casual and we kept it discreet.
Maybe "discreet" means something different to you. Or does your status change when it's convenient?
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Old 01-30-2016, 12:01 PM
 
Location: The point of no return, er, NorCal
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At 23 weeks, she may have had a D&C.
D&Es are not common procedures. They're typically performed in some adverse dx terminations. In non-TFMR cases labor is typically induced.

D&C is performed <13 weeks.
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