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Since you mentioned that both of you are going to church, have you 1) talked to God about this to get his wisdom and guideline?, 2) have you prayed about this and 3) have you talked to God about whether or not he wants you to be with him?
With everything that is happening regarding your boyfriend, perhaps God is telling you that he is not the one for you.
God could very well be telling this guy to east and you to go west. He could very well not want you to go east as well.
I would follow what God tells you, not what your boyfriend tells you.
Yes I have prayed about it and I feel that everyone has a past. You never know why God sends people in our lives maybe I am a guidance to pull him closer to the word of God
Yes I have prayed about it and I feel that everyone has a past. You never know why God sends people in our lives maybe I am a guidance to pull him closer to the word of God
Okay before we get too far down that road, just stop trying to explain what a great guy he is here.
You posted about telling your parents. The best thing to do is NOT what you have done here because there is no justification, and the more you try to defend him, the more entrenched you become in the rescuer/enabler role.
I am a black woman and he is a white man and we live in the south. A lot of times when I tell people about this situation they think that I am lying because they don't expect a white guy to have any trouble. I find that offensive
I am a black woman and he is a white man and we live in the south. A lot of times when I tell people about this situation they think that I am lying because they don't expect a white guy to have any trouble. I find that offensive
Why is that even relevant??
I'm from Tennessee, and I know for a fact that rednecks with criminal backgrounds are not rare in the south.
Good luck. Hopefully you'll do right by your parents.
I set a boundary. I told him he must stop or I will leave him. I can not support him if he spends 30 days in jail
What is the date of that stoppage?
If it isn't "today", your boundary is pretty much meaningless.
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