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Ive been attracted to women who wasnt pretty or beautiful, to put it as bluntly as possible. But def not ugly either. Whereas, ive been put off by pretty women.. Wouldnt use the term beautiful at all though. As that vocabulary implies the woman has an inexplicable attractiveness from her energy to her swag, to her looks.. To how she carry herself. Ultimately, im attracted more to someones energy and personality which makes them way more attractive and beautiful than someone with only just a pretty face. Ive repeated what many people claim to seek in a relationship but its all true for me and definitely applies.
Be lady like. Show body language that is friendly. Don't be one of those women busting men's b***. i rather have an average looking women than some woman that acts like a man.
Be lady like. Show body language that is friendly. Don't be one of those women busting men's b***. i rather have an average looking women than some woman that acts like a man.
lol! Where are all these b***-busting women? No one on this forum has ever answered that question. They complain about it, but they've never been able to cite an example from real life. They're mostly a figment of a few guys' imaginations, and the blogosphere.
Let's say you have a choice between two girls, both the same age (let's say 24), and both the same size (both are a size 2).
One is significantly more beautiful in the face, and absolutely no one would call her ugly; her personality isn't terrible either, it's very down to earth, and she's sweet to you.
The other has a significant amount in common with you (such as you share a common hobby or two) and is well-traveled, well-read, etc. for her age. Her face isn't horrid, but definitely not beautiful. She's rather calm and kind also.
If these two girls were competing for the same guy (you), what would the "less attractive" one have to do to win you over? (For long-term love).
I find myself in this position a lot...as the unattractive one.
I'm not asking about a specific guy or whining, but rather, asking for tips and ideas that might help me "compete" with prettier women my same age.
I know that the usual advice is "work out, makeup, hair, dress nice", however, those things can only do so much when your unattractiveness lies in genetic factors, like having a huge nose.
Thanks in advance for your advice. I appreciate honesty above all; that's always more useful.
First of all, stop thinking of yourself as the unattractive one. Geez, I hate self-pity or even self-deprecation. THAT's what's unattractive.
I don't like the shallowness of assigning a numerical value to looks, but let's go with it for the purposes of discussion here. Let's say your rival is a 9 and you're a 7. So? What else do you bring to the table? Humor? Warmth? Incessant curiosity about the world around you, the hallmarks of a lively mind?
You're 24. Barely out of adolescence. So let me say this to you right now. The sexiest things in the world are self-confidence and an openness to the universe. And if you're not 100% confident in what you have to offer, fake it. And the world will open up to you like a flower. Because if you don't love yourself, how do you expect anyone else to do the same?
Let's say you have a choice between two girls, both the same age (let's say 24), and both the same size (both are a size 2).
One is significantly more beautiful in the face, and absolutely no one would call her ugly; her personality isn't terrible either, it's very down to earth, and she's sweet to you.
The other has a significant amount in common with you (such as you share a common hobby or two) and is well-traveled, well-read, etc. for her age. Her face isn't horrid, but definitely not beautiful. She's rather calm and kind also.
If these two girls were competing for the same guy (you), what would the "less attractive" one have to do to win you over? (For long-term love).
I find myself in this position a lot...as the unattractive one.
I'm not asking about a specific guy or whining, but rather, asking for tips and ideas that might help me "compete" with prettier women my same age.
I know that the usual advice is "work out, makeup, hair, dress nice", however, those things can only do so much when your unattractiveness lies in genetic factors, like having a huge nose.
Thanks in advance for your advice. I appreciate honesty above all; that's always more useful.
lol! Where are all these b***-busting women? No one on this forum has ever answered that question. They complain about it, but they've never been able to cite an example from real life. They're mostly a figment of a few guys' imaginations, and the blogosphere.
My step sisters they told me themselves. One woman I knew that lived when I rented a room told me also. A bunch of married dudes told me in 1980's.
Go to redpillwomen these women themselves state they used to do it.
Among relationships with nonreciprocal violence, women were reported to be the perpetrator in a majority of cases (70.7%), as reported by both women (67.7%) and men (74.9%).
lol! Where are all these b***-busting women? No one on this forum has ever answered that question. They complain about it, but they've never been able to cite an example from real life. They're mostly a figment of a few guys' imaginations, and the blogosphere.
I know. I think they're getting the visual from some cartoonish I am woman, hear me roar in the business world 80s movie.
Do all these ball busting women have shoulder pads, by any chance? And terrible hair?
Yeah, because women who use and identify with the term "red pill" on reddit are a reliable and unbiased source.
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