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Nose jobs are game changers. I didn't appeal to men until I lost 30 pounds, dyed my hair blonde, got fake boobs and a nose job. Yup, men are shallow creatures and there's no such thing as natural beauty.
Hmm... Pretty generalized. These preferences you list are stereotypical as hell. Other than my lady is small, 5''0, 110 pounds, nothing else matches. Well , she does have a super cute little nose that just fit her face face perfect, but what you think men want in a nose, you don't state. Her hair is a dark auburn, her boobs are proportionate, she doesn't wear heavy makeup, just some eyeliner and lipstick, neither habituality, she has totally visible, pretty major, scars, from a car wreck, on her right arm, and on her face as well, though the doctors fixed those so they aren't that visible,
She lives in her Wrangler jeans a d she's the most beautiful woman I have ever had the honor of knowing, and she's all mine. She is a natural beauty. Yes, it DOES exist. Maybe younger city boys go for that bottle blonde, Bondo faced giggle queen look, idk, bug to share gbats what ALL men want, or maybe you were inferring a high 90% of us do. But that's not true either. Little hint, being bitter about the opposite sex is just as unappealing in a woman as it is in a man.
Of course everybody is allowed to have standards, so why is it that women's standards for men are encouraged and men having similar standards for women is demonized?
Quickest way? Have some traits that equally match mine. I'm a fitness buff, so a lady that isn't blessed with looks, and that's very subjective anyway, can be into cycling running or just the gym will get my attention EVERY time.
I've HEARD that really attractive women tend to not be great in bed...because they don't HAVE to be. Kinda like good looking people may not have to develop their personalities to the same degree to get through life. And like some guys never develop real "skills" because they think their size is enough.
False. Some of us just put everything, I mean everything, into the art of love making, regardless of how attractive to the opposite sex. I have always wanted the "her" that chose me to sleep with to remember the experience favorably for her life, whether she spends it with me or not. I absolutely want her to acheive satisfaction.
Just yesterday I was in a coffee shop sitting next to a woman who was not my type. She was plain-looking with an idiosyncratic fashion sense. Apart from great legs, her body was unremarkable. Yet, even now as I write this, I feel the same stirring in my loins I felt yesterday from an undeniable chemical attraction.
Would I sleep with her? Hell yes. But it would not develop into a relationship because my preferences would eventually override the chemistry.
If, however, this woman had physical (and other) qualities that were "close enough" to my desires, she would easily win out over more "attractive" women who lacked that chemistry.
And all of this will change with age and as you grow older and become more experienced with women.
And as you become more mature with life interactions with the Opposite Sex.
Really? So, when I am in my 70s I will wise up (since now I am in my 50s and lost count of the number of women I have experience with).
As you become more mature, you will learn not to be so presumptuous.
yes sir I am 64 years young myself and stand corrected. But please tell me at the age of 50 Something do you still believe that a attractive women can bring you everlasting happiness and contentment , and a less attractive compatible woman (cannot bring you more) pleasure and
peace of mind , soul and body.
Come on Old Man can we agree that a drop dead gorgeous super sexy woman can only bring temporary happiness.
now if you want to be happy for a lifetime you better find yourself a woman that has other attributes .
Hot chemistry most importantly and not a hot body covering up a woman void of passion and compassion integrity and character does not build a very happy home life.
One thing that I have learned about life in my 64 years is that a (hot body) is only temporary but a good woman last forever..
Well, if you are 64, your comment was valid and you need not stand corrected. (I stand corrected for presuming you were a Millennial.)
I may not have expressed myself clearly when I made the remark about the woman in the coffee shop. Essentially, she was less attractive than my "type" (except for her wonderful legs), however, I would have still picked her over the other more attractive women in the room because of the palpable chemistry I/we felt.
The thing is, for me, is I need the whole package. It need not be perfect -- and won't be -- but all the requirements must be present to some degree. From the waist down, this woman was a bulls-eye, and the "vibe" I felt was terrific. But as with a "quaint" house or an "exotic" car, which may have one or two great physical attributes and a good "feel", their small shortcomings eventually become major annoyances, or longings, over time. I have found that to be true with people as well.
Also, when I say "attractive" it is not in a physical sense. Beauty is subjective and what is pretty to me is hideous to someone else. Attraction for me is simply what I find desirable on certain inner levels. This woman definitely had it on a couple of those levels, but not all of them. And not matter how good a person she was, she would not be good for me (nor I for her) without having all of them.
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yes sir I am 64 years young myself and stand corrected. But please tell me at the age of 50 Something do you still believe that a attractive women can bring you everlasting happiness and contentment , and a less attractive compatible woman (cannot bring you more) pleasure and
peace of mind , soul and body.
Come on Old Man can we agree that a drop dead gorgeous super sexy woman can only bring temporary happiness.
now if you want to be happy for a lifetime you better find yourself a woman that has other attributes .
Hot chemistry most importantly and not a hot body covering up a woman void of passion and compassion integrity and character does not build a very happy home life.
One thing that I have learned about life in my 64 years is that a (hot body) is only temporary but a good woman last forever..
Well, if you are 64, your comment was valid and you need not stand corrected. (I stand corrected for presuming you were a Millennial.)
I may not have expressed myself clearly when I made the remark about the woman in the coffee shop. Essentially, she was less attractive than my "type" (except for her wonderful legs), however, I would have still picked her over the other more attractive women in the room because of the palpable chemistry I/we felt.
The thing is, for me, is I need the whole package. It need not be perfect -- and won't be -- but all the requirements must be present to some degree. From the waist down, this woman was a bulls-eye, and the "vibe" I felt was terrific. But as with a "quaint" house or an "exotic" car, which may have one or two great physical attributes and a good "feel", their small shortcomings eventually become major annoyances, or longings, over time. I have found that to be true with people as well.
Also, when I say "attractive" it is not in a physical sense. Beauty is subjective and what is pretty to me is hideous to someone else. Attraction for me is simply what I find desirable on certain inner levels. This woman definitely had it on a couple of those levels, but not all of them. And not matter how good a person she was, she would not be good for me (nor I for her) without having all of them.
That''s the reason that verbal communication is so
important as opposed to written communications , when it''s not face to face misunderstandings abound. I thought that you were a member of the 20's something cry in your cereal every morning crowd because you could not have your way with a drop dead gorgeous model. And the very next day dump on a cute plain Jane Looking Girl that could
& would make you a very happy camper. .
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She is a natural beauty. Yes, it DOES exist. Maybe younger city boys go for that bottle blonde, Bondo faced giggle queen look, idk, bug to share gbats what ALL men want, or maybe you were inferring a high 90% of us do. But that's not true either. Little hint, being bitter about the opposite sex is just as unappealing in a woman as it is in a man.
