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Raena, no matter what happened/happens with guy(s) you've asked out, the important thing here is that you tried. As I've said before, I think it's great when women take the initiative & don't make the guy do all the work all the time. After all, you never know what will happen until/unless you make the attempt.
Also, I'm of the belief (that other guys may not agree with) that if a guy is interested when a woman asks him out - he will show that interest. In other words, a woman asking a guy out is not a turn-off to most guys - and, if it is, those guys don't know what they're missing out on
Raena, no matter what happened/happens with guy(s) you've asked out, the important thing here is that you tried. As I've said before, I think it's great when women take the initiative & don't make the guy do all the work all the time. After all, you never know what will happen until/unless you make the attempt.
Also, I'm of the belief (that other guys may not agree with) that if a guy is interested when a woman asks him out - he will show that interest. In other words, a woman asking a guy out is not a turn-off to most guys - and, if it is, those guys don't know what they're missing out on
No problem - just wanted to make it clear that I support what you did 100%, and wish more women would do the same thing. It would be great if women will read what you've done & it inspired them to ask guys out - instead of waiting for guys to ask them out.
Unfortunately, the idea of women initiating conversations/dates with guys is still a foreign concept to many women (and men) - despite the fact that we're now in the second decade of the 21st century....very backwards...
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No problem - just wanted to make it clear that I support what you did 100%, and wish more women would do the same thing. It would be great if women will read what you've done & it inspired them to ask guys out - instead of waiting for guys to ask them out.
Unfortunately, the idea of women initiating conversations/dates with guys is still a foreign concept to many women (and men) - despite the fact that we're now in the second decade of the 21st century....very backwards...
I don't think a majority of men have a problem with being asked out but what your commonly hear is where a woman asked one guy out and she got rejected now it's the men's job to approach them which makes this their problem not ours.
No problem - just wanted to make it clear that I support what you did 100%, and wish more women would do the same thing. It would be great if women will read what you've done & it inspired them to ask guys out - instead of waiting for guys to ask them out.
Unfortunately, the idea of women initiating conversations/dates with guys is still a foreign concept to many women (and men) - despite the fact that we're now in the second decade of the 21st century....very backwards...
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Originally Posted by senior papi
I don't think a majority of men have a problem with being asked out but what your commonly hear is where a woman asked one guy out and she got rejected now it's the men's job to approach them which makes this their problem not ours.
I'm not giving up, was a bit sad, but luckily I bounce back.
He could just have low self-esteem and genuinely not understand what a woman could find attractive about him.
I don't think it was that. He knew me.Highschool, college, and worked together. I assume he isn't attracted to me.
He's still friends with me on fb. Which I have no idea why.If I had an unwanted dude hitting on me I'd probably block him.
I'm going to ask another out probably next week.Just hang as friends so I don't scare him. Lol!
Some men view women asking them out as backwards and just prefer doing the asking themselves. I feel as a man I have to make the first move and I am flattered if a woman comes up to me first but I won't accept. Women need to let men be men and let them pursue them over the other way around.
Some men view women asking them out as backwards and just prefer doing the asking themselves. I feel as a man I have to make the first move and I am flattered if a woman comes up to me first but I won't accept. Women need to let men be men and let them pursue them over the other way around.
But at my age they don't approach.Ok some do but they are weird.
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