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Women definitely suck at asking guys out to a date. They are insecure about being rejected or appearing too upfront even though they are clearly giving the vibes. I've been asked out by a few women and it always start with "what are you doing this week?" then follow by "Are you free anytime this week?" then they would ask "maybe we can go to that place you mentioned, I always wanted to try." Women would never directly ask a guy out but they will get into a topic then conveniently ask you to take them out.
Why is it ok for men to get rejected but not women?
It is not fun for men or women to be rejected, but most women get enough attention from men that lots of women have no need to ever bother ever asking men out.
As a result asking men out is much more optional for women than for men.
That said not all men that women are interested in actually ask these women out. Sometimes it is because a specific guy is shy and sometimes it is because this guy isn't romantically interested in this woman. That said, sometimes if a woman did ask out a guy she would go out on a few extra dates than she has right now.
It is not fun for men or women to be rejected, but most women get enough attention from men that lots of women have no need to ever bother ever asking men out.
As a result asking men out is much more optional for women than for men.
That said not all men that women are interested in actually ask these women out. Sometimes it is because a specific guy is shy and sometimes it is because this guy isn't romantically interested in this woman. That said, sometimes if a woman did ask out a guy she would go out on a few extra dates than she has right now.
If the women is a Sub 5 she may need to ask. On the other hand if women actually asked men out they would have much better chance of landing the man of their choice.
Because it's usually unattractive, desperate, and unappealing women who would do that.
Now the very attractive, high status, very appealing ones wouldn't be caught dead asking men out.
The caveat is both groups are highly subjective based on who you ask (beauty is in the eye of the beholder), but at the end of the day, no man would not be freaked out.
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Why is it ok for men to get rejected but not women?
Supply and demand.
Do you think Jeff Bezos or Elon Musk would ever get rejected at this point? Probably not.
If you don't like rejection then you have to bring something to the table that most women won't refuse.
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Lol, because it just is.
There are many things in this world that aren't fair. Suck it up butter cup.
Women will always always have the upper hand so to speak in the dynamic.
Get used to it buddy, it's the way it is.
Hence why a man who beds many women is a stud but a woman who beds many men is just...easy. He put himself out there and found success, she just said yes. A lot. lol
Mod cut.
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