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Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Originally Posted by Miz Ree
I don't understand the need to unfriend and block her, but I'm glad you recognize the need to move on. Better luck next time Diss.
My thing, out of sight and out of mind. I needed to remove any temptation to contact her. It is the same situation that caused me to move away from the temptation of all the violence and crime in my hometown in SE Virginia. Sometimes the only way to deal with temptation to do negative crap is getting the hell away. Plus, I don't play that friendzone anyway.
Last edited by The Dissenter; 10-11-2017 at 07:02 PM..
Location: In the cold, dark wasteland of eternity...
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Originally Posted by Miz Ree
I don't understand the need to unfriend and block her, but I'm glad you recognize the need to move on. Better luck next time Diss.
You don't understand his need to unfriend and block the LOSER that led him on? I don't understand how you can't even partially identify with his need to do that...seriously?!
So tell me, what would YOU do if the same thing that happened to the OP was done to YOU?!
[quote=AprilFlowers17;49795092]You don't understand his need to unfriend and block the LOSER that led him on? I don't understand how you can't even partially identify with his need to do that...seriously?!
So tell me, what would YOU do if the same thing that happened to the OP was done to YOU?![/QUOT
There’s no need to call her a loser, and why are you so hostile towards someone you don’t even know? Maybe someone else wouldn’t react like you are saying the op should.
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Originally Posted by AprilFlowers17
You don't understand his need to unfriend and block the LOSER that led him on? I don't understand how you can't even partially identify with his need to do that...seriously?!
So tell me, what would YOU do if the same thing that happened to the OP was done to YOU?!
I don't know if I would say she led me on. I think it is more she didn't have enough courage to be 100% with me if she wasn't feeling me the same way I felt her. There was no doubt to what my intention was because I was honest throughout.
I know you don't mean that and it will definitely go well for me if I don't try anymore.
No clue what you think I said and didn't mean, but do whatever you need to, pal. Don't see why you need to keep posting you shouldn't try anymore. If you don't want to then don't. I just don't see what posting about it here over and over again is supposed to accomplish for you. But, maybe that will work for you toward whatever end you're trying to reach. *shrug* Good luck.
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Originally Posted by EverEden
There’s no need to call her a loser, and why are you so hostile towards someone you don’t even know? Maybe someone else wouldn’t react like you are saying the op should.
I agree with you. I don't even think she is a bad person. There was a lot I liked about her but the lack of courage to be honest with me was the final straw and I really hope she can learn to be better about being honest in romantic endeavors. But for my sanity I needed to remove her presence from my life to hopefully find a partner who is into me and means it.
No clue what you think I said and didn't mean, but do whatever you need to, pal. Don't see why you need to keep posting you shouldn't try anymore. If you don't want to then don't. I just don't see what posting about it here over and over again is supposed to accomplish for you. But, maybe that will work for you toward whatever end you're trying to reach. *shrug* Good luck.
I don't know why you responded to me in the first place.
I agree with you. I don't even think she is a bad person. There was a lot I liked about her but the lack of courage to be honest with me was the final straw and I really hope she can learn to be better about being honest in romantic endeavors. But for my sanity I needed to remove her presence from my life to hopefully find a partner who is into me and means it.
I’m sorry for you that it didn’t work out. I’m trying to give her the benefit of the doubt and see her side of it. Maybe something else is going on in her life, or it’s a bad time for her and she’s not telling you. I don’t know, but I wish you luck in your next romantic endeavor.
I do tend to root for the underdog though, and you say you like her, so I’ll secretly hope that this relationship comes back to you somehow
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