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FYI: I didn't read through any of this thread yet, so if I repeat anything, forgive me, but if they all had jobs & still ask you for money, the main thing is, I hope you said a FIRM & QUICK NO to them all. Plus, ask yourself these questions:
- Do you talk about how you like to financially help out your family & friends OR even talk quite a bit about doing nice things for them? If so, stop talking about that so much.
- Do you kind of show off about the things you buy, trips you go on, & anything else to do w/ how much AND how often you buy things? If so, stop.
- On the 1st few dates w/ these men, did you offer to pay for everything or just pay too much, etc.? If so, let the man be the man & PAY.
If you honestly don't really say/do anything about the points I said above & it's solely because you have nice things that people can just SEE w/o you saying a word, such as: You wear nice clothes all the time, have nice jewelry, have a nice car, etc., then these men are probably targeting you & their agenda all along was probably to see if you're a spineless, soft sap who'll do what they ask & give them $$$.
You need to be more firm about your character & mentality. I'm ALL for women's rights too & independent women & all that, but sit back & let the men do things & pay for them too. Don't act like the BOSS LADY too much when being in romantic relationships.
At this point you probably won't be getting paid from your most recent ex. Why not just admit that he won't pay you and move on? Leave him alone, write the slate clean and learn from your lending mistakes.
At this point you probably won't be getting paid from your most recent ex. Why not just admit that he won't pay you and move on? Leave him alone, write the slate clean and learn from your lending mistakes.
I’m not writing it off it’s a lot of money and I was promised back I’m not gonna let another man screw me over I intened to sue and get a garnish or whatever u call it from wages I’ve got proof stating he would pay I’ve let Aalto of money go from two other exes not this one
I’m not writing it off it’s a lot of money and I was promised back I’m not gonna let another man screw me over I intened to sue and get a garnish or whatever u call it from wages I’ve got proof stating he would pay I’ve let Aalto of money go from two other exes not this one
By doing it forcefully but not illegal I’ve already cussed off his post on social media and he took them pictures down things like that might get him to answer but his deadbeat attitude don’t k ow got huge ego
I can't think of any "forceful" method that would not be illegal. You can't threaten, harass, harm, blackmail, etc. this guy.
I’m not writing it off it’s a lot of money and I was promised back I’m not gonna let another man screw me over I intened to sue and get a garnish or whatever u call it from wages I’ve got proof stating he would pay I’ve let Aalto of money go from two other exes not this one
I need like $5 for ramen noodles for the rest of the week. PM me LMAO!
Seriously, where are you finding these dudes
I meet them at work so they obviously got jobs I don’t k ow why they ask me they get paid every week like me same amount none had kids except one guy who’s son was over 18 so I don’t know I met them at work one guy had nerve tell me he don’t hang around ppl that burn spend money but yet guy asked me for $500
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