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I mean I wanted to be nice gf and show I care and am supportive but no I didn’t
You're not a "girlfriend" if the relationship is only days or weeks old and there's been no decision on exclusivity yet. And even after that happens, you don't "owe" any guy financial support.
It’s to be nice u date a girl u want to know if she would be their for u during hard times I loaned $300 another time $1742 another time $830 different guys
Wow. You are the queen of bad judgment. What did they say this money was supposed to be used for?
"Being there" for someone means providing emotional support, not paying their bills for them. You want to give money to someone, you need to have it put IN WRITING that it is a LOAN, not a gift, and that they are expected to pay it back, and include details of the agreed-upon installments.Sign and date it and have it notarized, and the guy gets a copy of it.
Otherwise, good luck, sweetie, in seeing that money again. Small claims won't give it back to you without proof that it is a loan instead of a gift.
You're not a "girlfriend" if the relationship is only days or weeks old and there's been no decision on exclusivity yet. And even after that happens, you don't "owe" any guy financial support.
She said the loan requests came in longer-term relationships, like 6 months or longer. I can't find that post now, but these requests didn't come after just a few casual dates.
I’ve dated about 4 guys and they have all asked me for money even when just starting the relationship couple days weeks into the relationship they ask for money I don’t know maybe it’s me that attracts these types of men but they have jobs and that’s how met at work
You're dating the wrong men. Rethink your standards.
Wow. You are the queen of bad judgment. What did they say this money was supposed to be used for?
"Being there" for someone means providing emotional support, not paying their bills for them. You want to give money to someone, you need to have it put IN WRITING that it is a LOAN, not a gift, and that they are expected to pay it back, and include details of the agreed-upon installments.Sign and date it and have it notarized, and the guy gets a copy of it.
Otherwise, good luck, sweetie, in seeing that money again. Small claims won't give it back to you without proof that it is a loan instead of a gift.
I have text messages from him acknowledging the loan and saying he will pAy back
You're dating the wrong men. Rethink your standards.
Really this recent guy that dumped me said my exes before him were trash and that he doesn’t consider himself to be in the same category has my past exes even tho he owes me $840 yeah he cooked dinner a lot times for me and my other exes didn’t but he also wanted borrow money ask me buy him clothes but considers himself better than exes
Ah I see, youre a pushover. People can see a pushover a mile away, and I wonder if you give them money to avoid them ending the relationship. Do you have issues with being alone?
Yes I do have issues being alone cause I have low self esteem and see hotter girls I was cheated on before and left for another girl but now I made promise myself not loan money and I’m not looking to date for along times couple years I give them money to avoid end relationship cause I think that’s only way they stay I buy them things
Really this recent guy that dumped me said my exes before him were trash and that he doesn’t consider himself to be in the same category has my past exes even tho he owes me $840 yeah he cooked dinner a lot times for me and my other exes didn’t but he also wanted borrow money ask me buy him clothes but considers himself better than exes
Is this your boyfriend? I was wondering what his gf’s side of the story would be.
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Exactly so not my fault even tho she told me about the exes not paying I convinced her I’m not like them and convinced her to lend me money she didn’t have to but she did so it ain’t poor girl she should learn
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