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Look up "people pleaser". I still have to fight that behavior. My first husband was a leech and I won't go into a complete list of all the things I spent money on to make him happy, but at the top of the list would be taking on a car loan in MY name so he could buy is dream car in HIS name. It was 1983 and I took on a $10K loan. The paperwork was a little complicated but the bank let us do it. My second husband made half what I did and had little savings but lived below his means and didn't expect me to help him out financially.
I'm widowed now and dating again. I'm dating a very nice man of very modest means. He knows I have a lot more than he does and he's never asked me for a dime. I'd be horrified if he did.
Please be nice to yourself and find guys who aren't leeches.
When you say you met them at work, you mean they were co-workers? Also, how far along were you in the relationships when they began to ask for money? Were you living together?
Only date men who are your equal or better. Don't talk about money and look poor. Unemployed? Works part time from home? Just say no thank you. You are busy and not interested.
I’ve dated about 4 guys and they have all asked me for money even when just starting the relationship couple days weeks into the relationship they ask for money I don’t know maybe it’s me that attracts these types of men but they have jobs and that’s how met at work
Time to learn to say no. Sorry but why are you giving these guys money?
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