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I’ve dated about 4 guys and they have all asked me for money even when just starting the relationship couple days weeks into the relationship they ask for money I don’t know maybe it’s me that attracts these types of men but they have jobs and that’s how met at work
Maybe something about the way you talk or act makes you appear like you have a lot of money, and because you are attractive physically but have a timid personality, some of these people you meet might be more interested in your money rather than you. Maybe you should answer that you have nothing to give and use that as an opportunity to ask for a free dinner and see how they respond.
I mean I wanted to be nice gf and show I care and am supportive but no I didn’t
Why are you claiming girlfriend status when your post makes it sound like these were nothing more than casual first or second dates? Honestly, the fact that any of them asked you for $$ at all should throw up a huge, red flag. Do a better job of screening before you go out. Select those that are employed, preferably full-time. Nice + caring doesn't equal handing out money like you are a lending officer @ a bank. In short, they are using you.
Why are you claiming girlfriend status when your post makes it sound like these were nothing more than casual first or second dates? Honestly, the fact that any of them asked you for $$ at all should throw up a huge, red flag. Do a better job of screening before you go out. Select those that are employed, preferably full-time. Nice + caring doesn't equal handing out money like you are a lending officer @ a bank. In short, they are using you.
I’ve dated about 4 guys and they have all asked me for money even when just starting the relationship couple days weeks into the relationship they ask for money I don’t know maybe it’s me that attracts these types of men but they have jobs and that’s how met at work
All of them at work? Maybe the word gets around that you're a soft touch.
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