Is Bisexual an Issue? (girl, cheat, engagement, attractive)
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Nope. I don't invite people into my life who are more likely than normal to bring drama with them. Someone labeling themselves as bisexual is a red flag to me.
Nope. I don't invite people into my life who are more likely than normal to bring drama with them. Someone labeling themselves as bisexual is a red flag to me.
I don’t think that sexuality can be tied to red flags or how much drama they would bring to a relationship. Straight, gay, bi people all bring red flags to potential relationships.
I can only see drama if someone were dishonest about who they were from the get go, or we’re sleeping around and bringing home STDs. < Anyone can do that
Do secondary sex traits in women like how buxom a woman is or a woman's hip to waist ratio show up on your radar or do they too just seem like parts to you? Or are you mostly just interested in the performative aspects of feminity, wearing skirts, dresses, heels, make up, maybe lingerie but the actual shape of the underlying body isn't that important to you.
When I say 'parts', I am referring to genitalia. I don't care what is between a person's legs - both are mmmm.
I don't care about breast size as I am not focused on it - I freely say I am a 'leg & booty' boy so, yes, thigh and booty size and shape get my attention on the physical front.
As far as 'presentation' - dressing up, make up, mannerisms, etc. - very important to me.
Gynesexuality is not about the genitalia - a person can be 'hot' regardless of what they 'have' - it's about being feminine in looks, attitude, mannerisms, dress, personality, etc.
And, above all, no hair at all except on top of head and eyelashes/eyebrows.
When I say 'parts', I am referring to genitalia. I don't care what is between a person's legs - both are mmmm.
I don't care about breast size as I am not focused on it - I freely say I am a 'leg & booty' boy so, yes, thigh and booty size and shape get my attention on the physical front.
As far as 'presentation' - dressing up, make up, mannerisms, etc. - very important to me.
Gynesexuality is not about the genitalia - a person can be 'hot' regardless of what they 'have' - it's about being feminine in looks, attitude, mannerisms, dress, personality, etc.
And, above all, no hair at all except on top of head and eyelashes/eyebrows.
When at one point you mentioned a couple of celebrities you find appealing, I looked them up. The one trait I noticed with both...lips. Big, full, pouty, femme-lookin' lips. Wondering if that's something you are consciously aware of and attracted to, or that is just my impression of those specific people?
When at one point you mentioned a couple of celebrities you find appealing, I looked them up. The one trait I noticed with both...lips. Big, full, pouty, femme-lookin' lips. Wondering if that's something you are consciously aware of and attracted to, or that is just my impression of those specific people?
(judgment free tone, just mildly curious.)
Yep. I have 'pouty-looking' lips myself... I get complimented on them every once in a while.
It may be that I am consciously aware of it... or, IMO more likely, it's incidental. Dunno, never thought of it... until now.
When I say 'parts', I am referring to genitalia. I don't care what is between a person's legs - both are mmmm.
I don't care about breast size as I am not focused on it - I freely say I am a 'leg & booty' boy so, yes, thigh and booty size and shape get my attention on the physical front.
As far as 'presentation' - dressing up, make up, mannerisms, etc. - very important to me.
Gynesexuality is not about the genitalia - a person can be 'hot' regardless of what they 'have' - it's about being feminine in looks, attitude, mannerisms, dress, personality, etc.
And, above all, no hair at all except on top of head and eyelashes/eyebrows.
I was actually trying to get a greater understanding though of what you actually saw as feminine. I mean for me, female genitalia and secondary sex traits definitely show up on my radar and code as highly feminine. For you some seemed less important, but you did clear that up. So thank you.
The other issue is if they are declaring it and announcing it in the present tense, they're really saying they're not monogamous and that's a deal-breaker for many.
The labels for sexual orientation indicate that the person experiences sexual attraction for a particular sex. It doesn't necessary mean they're pursuing sexual encounters.
If they say they're "actively bisexual," then I'd ask them what happens to that active status if they get into a serious relationship with somebody.
As the Beatles sang so many years ago "Love is all you need."
They also sang : Do you want to know a secret?" LOL!
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