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Old 11-13-2008, 10:53 PM
 
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wrong that time I was serious.
Aren't you feeling a bit snarky tonight???
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Old 11-13-2008, 11:03 PM
 
Location: southern california
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I think "the beautiful people" are so paranoid. I am one of the hotties and I know other very attractive people and they are so full of themselves both guys and the ladies. ugh. Get over yourselves is what I have to say.

They self inflate their own egos by pretending that others are out to "hassle" or "come on" to them and these people will talk about hating the attention. Ya right.
says he is a hottie?? wait a minute in a post a few months back didn't you say you were out of shape and more recently asexual?
jes tryin to understand it all. beautiful people are paranoid? why?
i dont know any beautiful people that are paranoid. got the world by the tail, love works for them bek its one way all incoming. life is good for the narcisst. i dont think you are a narcisst. not even close.
am i making faces yet?
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Old 11-13-2008, 11:27 PM
 
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lol look at you giving me a hard time....I said I gained a few pounds. I am not out of shape at all since it only took two weeks to lose weight and tone my body up again.

Believe me beautiful people can be real paranoid. They never shut up about how people are always trying to get into their panties

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says he is a hottie?? wait a minute in a post a few months back didn't you say you were out of shape and more recently asexual?
jes tryin to understand it all. beautiful people are paranoid? why?
i dont know any beautiful people that are paranoid. got the world by the tail, love works for them bek its one way all incoming. life is good for the narcisst. i dont think you are a narcisst. not even close.
am i making faces yet?
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Old 11-13-2008, 11:50 PM
 
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People get the indignant stereotyping rap on here, but certain inferences can be made...with social psychologists often able to back them up.

What I've found is that people who are attractive enough (say 7 or 8) know their looks can't pull them through, so they still develop their skills and personalities. People whose looks are in the 9 or 10 range leverage that, so their personalities often suck and other aspects of their intellectual development is not what it can be. I've also seen people who might be ranked as 1s and 2s are being kind of bitter.

Let's face it, from the beginning of history, physical attractiveness has ALWAYS been prized.

There are a few exceptions, but not many.
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Old 11-14-2008, 10:40 AM
 
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Do you know how to get an attractiveness ranking? I've not a single clue, I just know I'm not a 10/9 or a 1/2,-probably I imagine close to the former when I was younger, close to the latter now but besides that....
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Old 11-14-2008, 10:45 AM
 
Location: Henderson, NV
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People get the indignant stereotyping rap on here, but certain inferences can be made...with social psychologists often able to back them up.

What I've found is that people who are attractive enough (say 7 or 8) know their looks can't pull them through, so they still develop their skills and personalities. People whose looks are in the 9 or 10 range leverage that, so their personalities often suck and other aspects of their intellectual development is not what it can be. I've also seen people who might be ranked as 1s and 2s are being kind of bitter.

Let's face it, from the beginning of history, physical attractiveness has ALWAYS been prized.

There are a few exceptions, but not many.
A lot of times someone develops the best if they become better looking later. I know me and my friend are both this way. In high school we were the nerds, didn't go on any dates, and were not in the popular crowd. We were the smart kids. We both worked out a lot in college, and he's had two very good looking girlfriends now since then, I haven't done bad when I actually care enough to try, and he's in med school, I'm in film. So if you don't have your looks to rely upon when you're younger, you develop stronger in other areas, then you become better looking later. I know a lot of girls like this, too. Girls who in high school weren't the hot girls. Then I saw them years after high school and thought -- whoa! She changed! They seem to be the most gracious and have the best personalities, too, because they don't take it for granted. They know what it was like on the other side. I feel like that, too, I still enjoy being complimented on my looks because it's relatively new to me, like in the last five years, not my whole life like some of the hot girls who since they were very young everyone always said how good looking they were. It has gotten old for them, by that point.
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Old 11-14-2008, 11:40 AM
 
Location: Center of the universe
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Do you know how to get an attractiveness ranking? I've not a single clue, I just know I'm not a 10/9 or a 1/2,-probably I imagine close to the former when I was younger, close to the latter now but besides that....
hotornot.com
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Old 11-14-2008, 11:41 AM
 
Location: Henderson, NV
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hotornot.com
Yeah just beware that lately they've been inflating ratings, apparently, like nobody has less than a 5.0. So your rating isn't as important as your percentile ranking. For instance if it says, "7.6" and you think, awesome, wow, I'm a 7.6! But if it says, "You are hotter than 52% of men on this site," that's... just ok.
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Old 11-14-2008, 11:46 AM
 
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I know I am hot so I don't need to go on hot or not.
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Old 11-14-2008, 11:52 AM
 
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I know I am hot so I don't need to go on hot or not.
I'll only go on that site to check out the babes.....................
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