O.K. for ladies to contact men first on Internet dating site?

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by Rance

Nobody tells me who I can and can't marry. Or when. If my government stoops that low I'll pack my bags and flip this country the bird as I level off at 30,000' headed for the mother land!

Oh, yeah, your/our government stoops this low and lower! I happened to have dealt with this particular section of it, too! Just make sure you lose this kind of attitude when dealing with them unless you really want to live in Sweden (not being sarcastic; totally friendly advice!). INS was probably a babe in the woods in comparison to the current crap.

[shania]

Originally Posted by hoowahman

I'm a guy on a dating site that created a profile and didn't go looking around all that much. I figured most of the woman are getting messages constantly and I would just be lost in the shuffle. So I just created a nice short profile that showed some of my characteristics and let them come to me. So far it's been working out fine. If I am doing this I would bet a lot of good men are as well. I also know a lot of good women on some sites hide their profile and do most of the reaching out.

Thanks for the input. That's good to know.

[lololili]

Hello Dear,
My name is lilian fofana, i read about your profile on and i decide to contact you hoping that you will accept my request, if you accept my request , please reply to my email address(fofanalilian@yahoo.com) so that i will send you my photo and more about me, i believe we can make good friends, let distance not be a barrier but lets love connect us together.
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lilian fofana

[WantToHaveALife]

wish more would do so