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I'm a married woman, so no, I don't hit on strangers. That said, there is nothing a stranger could say to me that would make me feel diminished as a person.
I had (up to that point) enjoyed our conversation, thought (THOUGHT) she was pretty and wanted to see her again.
Isn't that a compliment?
A compliment doesn't necessarily get you a phone number or a date. And depending on the circumstances -- the demeanors, etc. -- whipping out your phone without asking first whether you can call her might seem presumptuous. I'm just trying to help you, OP, not crucify you.
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Originally Posted by Cyanosphere
Excuse me on not being Don Casanova Bond.
You'll be happy to know Casanova had his bad days too.
I wish women were nicer in general to people theyre not interested in that hit on them
I have ahard enough time approaching women as is but when you are about to approach a women and shes already looking at you like how dare this guy even aprpoach me it makes u feel awful and not attractive..
I wish women were nicer in general to people theyre not interested in that hit on them
I have ahard enough time approaching women as is but when you are about to approach a women and shes already looking at you like how dare this guy even aprpoach me it makes u feel awful and not attractive..
One thing I've learned through 20-something dating is that you should NEVER show a woman that you are interested under any circumstances if you seriously want to see her again. That sounds crazy, but it works. I would have ended the conversation, not by asking for her number....but by telling her "nice talking to you, MAYBE I will see you again". Unless you have huge ripping muscles or a Jonas brothers looking face, then this is probobly the best course of action......
One thing I've learned through 20-something dating is that you should NEVER show a woman that you are interested under any circumstances if you seriously want to see her again. That sounds crazy, but it works. I would have ended the conversation, not by asking for her number....but by telling her "nice talking to you, MAYBE I will see you again". Unless you have huge ripping muscles or a Jonas brothers looking face, then this is probobly the best course of action......
I think my mother didn't do a very good job teaching me the girl-code or something. If a guy is interested in me but keeps it to himself, then we're just two ships that pass in the night. Maybe it's because I'm the most oblivious woman on the face of the earth, but the subtle "nice talking to you, maybe I will see you again" won't garner any kind of reaction from me beyond a private, "Oh, that was too bad! He was nice. I liked him. Darn!" as I wandered off, feeling disappointed that he wasn't as interested in me as I had been in him.
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