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why do so many of you think there is this secret formula to picking up women? You want to increase your chances of meeting someone, get out and develop a healthy social life. Have something to talk about (you need to get out from behind the computer or video games first), have some manners, practice good hygiene and smile. There's no big secret. All these "how to meet women" tactics are about as affective as the fad diets. No matter how many issues of maxim or playboy you read it isn't going to make you a ladies man. All the "ignore her" or "don't call her for x amount of days" advice isn't going to give you the upper hand or allow you to snap your fingers and have women flock to you like the fonz. Just like watching all the porn in the world will not make you a better lover, taking dating tips from anonymous 15 year olds on the internet will most likely lead to another saturday night spent playing with your ps3 and/or yourself. If you are going to insist on being a jerk with women, i advise you to stock up on your favorite hand lotion and porn, because you're going to be humping your fist for a long time.
I'm tired of just being with only 1 girl at a time. I'm tired of having to pay for dates. I'm tired for talking on the phone 3 times a week an hour or 2 at a time. I'm tired of sitting on a couch watching movies I don't want to see. I'm tired of hearing "what are you thinking?" every time I don't feel like talking. I'm tired of girls getting angry when I don't do those things. And I'm tired of the weeks, even months of being single inbetween every "only 1" girl.
Sometimes I want a blonde girl. Sometimes I want a brunette. Sometimes I want a tall girl. Sometimes I want a short girl. Sometimes I want a American girl. Sometimes I want a European girl. Sometimes I want a white girl. Sometimes I want a black girl. Sometimes I want all of them at once.
I just want to feel that thrill of going all the way with someone new over and over.
He is going to wind up with women who are users. I once worked with a guy like this when I was younger. He was in his late 20s. He thought he had it all figured out, how he could manipulate women and always come out like the winner.
He felt everything was a contest, and he wound up with women who played the game right back.
I don't know what happened to him, but to me, that is expending far too much energy to try to manipulate everyone than to let life happen.
Oh absolutely but if that's what he wants to do, eh....shrug..
Seriously? It's a manipulation method to put them or yourself in a position to be seen as something else.
Torturers also get the truth from people through alternative methods, rather than identifying with them personally to get the information they seek. That doesn't make them ideal as psychologists when they go freelance later.
If it's working for you, great, if this is the only result you're looking for. Just can't see how you'd be disappointed in the women by not being self-analyzing enough to give you manipulation methods on themselves to help you get laid.
Exactly how old are you? That you have to do crap like this? Seems like a teenybopper trick. Young girls would fall for this...but I would tell you not to eff with me. And go away little boy.
I have no idea what the hell you are talking about. You found a guy friend, grew a pair, and got out there and got chatty with some girls. It's what we've been telling ya to do for weeks - you just couldn't get up the guts to do it on your own.
I'm tired of just being with only 1 girl at a time. I'm tired of having to pay for dates. I'm tired for talking on the phone 3 times a week an hour or 2 at a time. I'm tired of sitting on a couch watching movies I don't want to see. I'm tired of hearing "what are you thinking?" every time I don't feel like talking. I'm tired of girls getting angry when I don't do those things. And I'm tired of the weeks, even months of being single inbetween every "only 1" girl.
Sometimes I want a blonde girl. Sometimes I want a brunette. Sometimes I want a tall girl. Sometimes I want a short girl. Sometimes I want a American girl. Sometimes I want a European girl. Sometimes I want a white girl. Sometimes I want a black girl. Sometimes I want all of them at once.
I just want to feel that thrill of going all the way with someone new over and over.
I had to come back to this post as it's real honest. I'm not sure if you are going to read this Cyanosphere but at the end of the day, there really is no happiness and true satisfaction with this way of life. It's also a dead end and even the guys from the pickup artist forum say that.
A lot of men did this in my family in the 70's and one I can remember was my uncle. You know, he had so many women it was not funny, he also had a lot of kids because of it; at least 7 children that he knows; all from different women.
Anyhow, today he's in his late 50's single and depressed. I guess all the years playing with the girls he missed the opportunity to find him a good women; oh well. On a side note, another relative of mine, who played with the girls, was shot in the head and was killed coming out a bar; it was in relation to some girl he was messing with.
Geez, my old barber about 2 years ago who is a playboy almost got smoked; he was messing around with some girl who had a boyfriend and the boyfriend came to his job with a gun and pointed it at him. Glad I was not in the barbers chair that day!!!
Anyhow, all I'm trying to say is, I know you think dealing with ALL these girls will be fun; and I'm sure there will be good times, but at the end of the day, if you find yourself one good woman and you two take the time to learn about each other, that one women will be all that you need and you will be able to live/have safe and balanced life.
I had to come back to this post as it's real honest. I'm not sure if you are going to read this Cyanosphere but at the end of the day, there really is no happiness and true satisfaction with this way of life. It's also a dead end and even the guys from the pickup artist forum say that.
A lot of men did this in my family in the 70's and one I can remember was my uncle. You know, he had so many women it was not funny, he also had a lot of kids because of it; at least 7 children that he knows; all from different women.
Anyhow, today he's in his late 50's single and depressed. I guess all the years playing with girls hearts he missed the opportunity to find him a good women; oh well. On a side note, another relative of mine who played with the girls was shot in the head and was killed coming out a bar; it was in relation to some girl he was messing with.
Geez, my old barber who is a playboy almost got smoked; he was messing around with some girl who had a boyfriend and the boyfriend came to his job with a gun and pointed it at him. Glad I was not in the barbers chair that day!!!
Anyhow, all I'm trying to say is, I know you think dealing with ALL these girls will be fun; and I'm sure there will be good times, but at the end of the day, if you find yourself one good woman and you two take the time to learn about each other, that one women will be all that you need and you will be able to live/have safe and balanced life.
Morph01
Sage advice there sir. I doubt he's listening, but good advice just the same.
Well an old friend thought being a jerk was meant to attract women. Well he got smacked real hard when he opened his mouth and her boyfriend finished the jobs. I laughed through the whole thing.
I used to think the old sayings that "Jerks get all the girls" and "Nice guys finish last," were just that; sayings; tired old cliches.
I'm now convinced otherwise. Infact, I believe them to be the number 1, absolute truth in dating.
Ladies! Why didn't you tell me this?!
I've been studying this thing called Mystery Method the past couple of days. It's a system of techniques used to meet and attract women.
I also met a guy online who was looking for a "Wing man;" someone to practice approaching random girls and conversing with them during the day in hopes of getting their numbers or a date.
So we were out today, just walking around and looking for groups of girls to talk to.
I saw group of 2 young, attractive girls sitting on a bench outside, so I walk past them, then turn around and say "Hey guys, quick question. I only got a minute; I gotta meet my friends down the road (by telling them "I only have a minute," it disarms them so they won't think you'll try to eat up all their time, and gets them to think "Okay! I can spare a minute or 2") but I need an opinion on something (girls LOVE giving their opinions)
I tell the girls I'm in a band, and that I've been telling my band mates to play a guy's version of "Hollaback girl!" because it would be hilarious for a bunch of guys to not only sing a girl's song, but that song specifically, but they think it's stupid and won't do it. I want the girls to give their opinions on it.
The girls tell me they would love to see a bunch of guys play and sing "Hollaback girl." I go "Really? Well, my phone has a camera, and I want you to tell them on video that I was right and they were wrong."
So I take out my camera and record them telling my band mates that they think I have a good idea.
I get their names; Let's just call them E and M. M asks "So, you just go around trying to pickup random girls on benches or street corners? (Mystery Method calls this a "Player's test" to which you should ALWAYS reply jokingly and sarcastically)
I reply. "No, usually I spend my days locked in my room, writing in my journal and crying."
M goes "haha, you loser!"
I go "EWW!" than turn to E and go "Do you actually enjoy hanging out with her or do you only keep her out of trouble all day?" E says "Yeah, she can be a handful sometimes."
I reply "tell me about it. So you guys know where there's a coffee shop around here?"
M starts to talk, but I cut her off by saying "I was asking your friend, not you, rude girl."
The girls start to crack up and E tells me there's a Starbucks around the corner. I simply respond by saying "Okay. Care to lead me?"
The girls get up and start walking me to the Starbucks. I ask E, "Oh, she's (M) coming too? Whatever."
So we get to Starbucks, and my Wing Man is just "randomly" sitting there. I introduce them, we get our coffees, sit down and just chat.
And for about a good 30 minutes, we were just teasing them. One girl said she was an artist, and I said "What, like, stick-figures and stuff?"
One girl said how she gave up on the piano when she couldn't learn Chopsticks on the piano, and my friend replied "haha, you loser."
E started talking to M really quietly and I immitated her by making murmering sounds and then said "Speak up! You talk like a mouse!"
When E was talking and M started to turn her head and look down the street, my friend tells her "What's up, you checking those dudes down the street? Yeah, they're cute. You should ask them out. Here let me help you. HEY GUYS! THIS GIRL WAS CHECKING YOU OUT!" And M lept on him and put her hands on his mouth saying "SSHHH!"
It was a pretty wild day. We got both their numbers and are seeing them again Wednessday night.
I'm surpirsed how easy it is with the techniques I'm learning, and sure, having another guy is a lot of help.
But I'm disappointed that the women here weren't more open and honest about what attracts them to a guy.
You've got to be kidding me. This sounds like a scene from a lame sitcom. Is this how people interact these days? God, I'm glad I'm married.
You've got to be kidding me. This sounds like a scene from a lame sitcom. Is this how people interact these days? God, I'm glad I'm married.
20yrsinBranson
God, I'm glad I'm married. Hmmmmmmmmm
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