Wow, being a jerk REALLY DOES get women interested! (girlfriends, lover, attracted)
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You wanna know why they didn't tell you that? BECAUSE THEY DATE GUYS NOT GIRLS!!!!!!!!!!!!! So they have absolutely no clue about it. They're stuck in their little fantasy world most of the time.
You are forgetting to mention one thing. By implying that guys don't want nice girls what you should really be saying is that guys don't want to be with prudes who treat them like crap. Guys want to be with girls who are fun and enjoy having sex. If nice girl implies prude or asexual, sorry I'll pass thanks.
What is your definition of a nice girl?
I think of a nice girl and I think of someone who treats people with respect, who know her priorites, is honest, goes to school and does her studies and goes to work and does her job according to the description. These girls can be interested in sex too. It's not only for the snotty easy ones.
When did nice turn into prude?
Maybe because I'm in my early 30's and married I should just stay out of these threads.
I sometimes think men only want the kinds of girls you pick up at the bar and take home after a couple of mixed drinks.
Well , congratulations on finally getting what you wanted. Seems like you have it going now. I don't know if these methods would work on more mature women or women in ther 30's though. But since you are 21, it really doesn't matter much, except you might want to change your tactics when you get older. Make sure you get your money's worth in learning all that you can use.
There's no such thing as "nice girls" and "bad girls." There is such a thing as "nice guys" and "bad boys," but the same principle doesn't apply to women.
Men value different things than women.
Women value personality and character.
Men value femininity and sexuality.
A "nice girl" can still be very feminine and sexual. A "bad girl" may not be.
Men will want the one who is more feminine and sexual. Whether she is a "good girl" or "bad girl" is irrelevant.
I'm tired of just being with only 1 girl at a time. I'm tired of having to pay for dates. I'm tired for talking on the phone 3 times a week an hour or 2 at a time. I'm tired of sitting on a couch watching movies I don't want to see. I'm tired of hearing "what are you thinking?" every time I don't feel like talking. I'm tired of girls getting angry when I don't do those things. And I'm tired of the weeks, even months of being single inbetween every "only 1" girl.
Sometimes I want a blonde girl. Sometimes I want a brunette. Sometimes I want a tall girl. Sometimes I want a short girl. Sometimes I want a American girl. Sometimes I want a European girl. Sometimes I want a white girl. Sometimes I want a black girl. Sometimes I want all of them at once.
I just want to feel that thrill of going all the way with someone new over and over.
There is a word for you, "hedonistic"
You sample women as if they are not people. Maybe some woman will treat you the way you treat women. It would be good for you to have a taste of your own medicine.
But I suspect one thing. An exceptionally good looking rolo would not be posting this online. He would not even defend doing it.
I suspect you are not able to find what you claim you want.
Usually those with grand schemes only have...grand schemes.
I'm tired of just being with only 1 girl at a time. I'm tired of having to pay for dates. I'm tired for talking on the phone 3 times a week an hour or 2 at a time. I'm tired of sitting on a couch watching movies I don't want to see. I'm tired of hearing "what are you thinking?" every time I don't feel like talking. I'm tired of girls getting angry when I don't do those things. And I'm tired of the weeks, even months of being single inbetween every "only 1" girl.
Sometimes I want a blonde girl. Sometimes I want a brunette. Sometimes I want a tall girl. Sometimes I want a short girl. Sometimes I want a American girl. Sometimes I want a European girl. Sometimes I want a white girl. Sometimes I want a black girl. Sometimes I want all of them at once.
I just want to feel that thrill of going all the way with someone new over and over.
Are you 17 years old?
It sounds like you should just see prostitutes.
You have obviously had a really hard time talking to girls and gaining their interest...guys your age are all pretty much in their ho-ing around phase, and I think it is normal, but just remember two things: First, you will not find much quality in the girls themselves or the sex you experience with them...they will mostly be young, slutty, & insecure. Second, you are on a time clock here...this tactic is only good as long as you are young enough to attract these types of girls in the first place...when you get older, you will be overlooked for younger, hotter dudes, even if your wallet is overflowing...girls that age might get with u every now & then in order to get gifts & expensive dinners outta ya, but rest assured the younger, hotter dudes will be getting more & more often. I am not saying you should not sow those wild oats...just that you might want to set your sights higher than the insecure skanks that would actually fall for the sorry tactics you employ!!!
Tell me why you would want to continue the conversation with a woman who says this. Oh, she's hot right? So do you always lower your standards for hot women? No wonder they are so poorly behaved if they keep getting spoiled. It seems like you continued to reward her for this behavior by making her laugh, so she will keep acting badly like this.
I agree with you that it is unfortunate women here or anywhere give incredibly bad advice on what they "really enjoy" for a guy to do.
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