Ladies: Hot body, great job, great looking guy, tall dark and handsome BUT........ (boyfriend, marry)

[Little Mizz Pittsburgh]

Originally Posted by Ron.

he is missing a limb.


What would you do? Would you consider dating the guy? Mind you, this guy has a fantastic personality.


You can choose what limb he's missing. ( Nothing vulger. Keep it clean)


Example- He lost 7 fingers while he was in the Military. He was a bomb specialist. One day he was not so lucky.

Could you deal with a guy with 7 nubs and 3 fingers?

No. I'm not dealing with a man with ANY missing limbs. Friend zone!

[Mathguy]

If a super gal came along I wouldn't exclude her based upon something like that...as long as it didn't hold her back from living an active lifestyle etc.

While I would stick with a sick spouse, I'm not (emotionally) prepared to take on a "project" at this point in my life.

[JeepGirl118]

Originally Posted by FourOhFive

I don't know if I'd date her. I guess that says a lot about me! :x

[Miss Crabcakes]

If everything else was in place, I think I could get over it.

[tamajane]

If he had everything else going for him, no problemo. I wouldn't want the bomb guy though, for other reasons.

[Lucario]

One of my college football teammates and bandmates (he played trumpet) had one arm. He seemed to do well with the ladies. A lot better than I did.

[Eresh]

I wouldn't have a problem with it, assuming he had other, more important qualities, such as a good personality and sense of humor.
If it were a leg, think of the great parking spots one could get.

[LynnePatrice]

If I met a guy with all those qualities you mentioned and I liked him but he had only 1 arm or a prosthetic leg I would absolutely date him. If you really like someone you see past stuff like that.

On the other hand, I can't say for sure if I would deal with someone confined to a wheelchair. As awful as it sounds, I don't think I could deal with it. (Unless of course we were already married when the accident happened)

[STT Resident]

My answer is absolutely yes. Over many years I've dated a few men missing some parts - one with one arm, another with one leg, another missing half of one finger and another who lost a testicle in an accident. Personalities always turned me on over physical attributes although I never liked extremely thin or very overweight men or overly hairy men or men with bad teeth - or brainless twits!

[SouthCity09]

I guess there is no such thing as a perfect match.