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I briefly dated a guy who was missing a big toe. Nothing really noticeable. And a guy who was missing a finger on one hand. No big deal. But I agree with Jeepgirl-I'd rather have that than guy with all his limbs and was a jerk!!
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Originally Posted by Ron.
he is missing a limb.
What would you do? Would you consider dating the guy? Mind you, this guy has a fantastic personality.
You can choose what limb he's missing. ( Nothing vulger. Keep it clean)
Example- He lost 7 fingers while he was in the Military. He was a bomb specialist. One day he was not so lucky.
Could you deal with a guy with 7 nubs and 3 fingers?
I had a huge crush once on a guy with a glass eye, he was still hotter than 99.9% of the population. He was incredibly smart and kind as well. Too bad he was already married to a gorgeous woman.
yeah i know the feeling
that guy i had a crush on when i was 21 ended up a year later marrying a really sweet pretty girl.
I would date a guy who is missing one leg or one arm.
I can't date a guy who is missing a limb between his legs or inside his scalp....which technically none of it is a limb but still very valuable parts.
A co-worker of mine once had a date with a very attractive man, and just before they got into bed, he announced: I have something to show you.
A colostomy bag! Not just an ordinary colostomy bag where you can see the feces, but this was a designer label type of colostomy bag.
Well, she went ahead with it anyway, because she's the type of person who is always fearful of hurting someone's feelings. Bless her heart! Later, she came up with a fantastic lie and never saw him again.
And if you had one, a colostomy bag, would you blurt it out the first time you met someone or hope and pray after she got to know you better, she'd somehow, some way over look it?
A co-worker of mine once had a date with a very attractive man, and just before they got into bed, he announced: I have something to show you.
A colostomy bag! Not just an ordinary colostomy bag where you can see the feces, but this was a designer label type of colostomy bag.
Well, she went ahead with it anyway, because she's the type of person who is always fearful of hurting someone's feelings. Bless her heart! Later, she came up with a fantastic lie and never saw him again.
And if you had one, a colostomy bag, would you blurt it out the first time you met someone or hope and pray after she got to know you better, she'd somehow, some way over look it?
I won't lie. Missing limbs I can deal with no prob. My grandma has only one arm (swimming accident) and I've never batted an eye about it. A colostomy bag I can't ignore. I work with a girl that has one and she has given enough details where I could never do it. Between the stories about her draining (for urine) and shaking out the feces, I'm not a poop-friendly person already. And she doesn't have the money for a fancy designer one. I really can't imagine getting it on with someone and noticing the bag o' poop fillin up beside us. I couldn't even date someone with bowel control problems because poop freaks. me. out. (yes, I have already been told to not have children or a dog)
A co-worker of mine once had a date with a very attractive man, and just before they got into bed, he announced: I have something to show you.
A colostomy bag! Not just an ordinary colostomy bag where you can see the feces, but this was a designer label type of colostomy bag.
Well, she went ahead with it anyway, because she's the type of person who is always fearful of hurting someone's feelings. Bless her heart! Later, she came up with a fantastic lie and never saw him again.
And if you had one, a colostomy bag, would you blurt it out the first time you met someone or hope and pray after she got to know you better, she'd somehow, some way over look it?
who designs designer colostomy bags?!! i have never heard of that!!
hmm i always think im really, really sensitive and hate doing something that could hurt the other person's feelings, but if i saw it, i would have left sight on scene. horrible, but i am being honest.
I think above all else, looks eventually fade and you better have something sufficient underneath to make yourself attractive to the opposite sex. If the guy was serving our country and protecting our freedoms, who cares that he lost his digits or anything else. Everyone deserves love and just because this tragedy happened doesn't means he's off the market for being attractive. As long as he's a good guy it shouldn't matter.
What would you do? Would you consider dating the guy? Mind you, this guy has a fantastic personality.
You can choose what limb he's missing. ( Nothing vulger. Keep it clean)
Example- He lost 7 fingers while he was in the Military. He was a bomb specialist. One day he was not so lucky.
Could you deal with a guy with 7 nubs and 3 fingers?
Absolutely, if all the other preferred qualities were in place.
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