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1. don't email to ask on the first real date. call and ask. going to two closed places when you first met followed by asking her out via email makes you seem dumb.
2. i agree with no calling on friday. she probably has work and plans after. saturday late morning or afternoon is fine. i just wouldnt call saturday night because again shes probably doing something already. you should have called her thursday night on this situation.
3. always set something up again SOON. you wait a week and a half and you have almost a 100% chance of her losing interest. since she probably already thinks you are a flake i guarantee you if you wait that long shes not gonna see you next weekend.
People are still overlooking that I contacted her and initiated a 2nd meeting. Doesn't matter if it was on email or phone
Earth to TV- it DOES matter. And you have just found out first hand that it matters. You blew it.
But you no more learn from your mistakes than you take advice on how to avoid them. I think you just like the attention that you get on CD BC you don't get it in RL.
NO. You didn't contact her. You sent an EMAIL. Did she respond? NO. That means - NO CONTACT. Get a clue here dude. PICK UP THE PHONE AND CALL HER.
I didn't call on thurs night because she said she was going out to dinner and then there's tonight. Of course I'm not calling on a friday night so the only obvious night to call is sunday.
I didn't call on thurs night because she said she was going out to dinner and then there's tonight. Of course I'm not calling on a friday night so the only obvious night to call is sunday.
I didn't call on thurs night because she said she was going out to dinner and then there's tonight. Of course I'm not calling on a friday night so the only obvious night to call is sunday.
Do you realize how stupid that sounds? There is nothing sacred about Friday night OR Saturday night. Honestly, you are your own worst enemy.
Do you realize how stupid that sounds? There is nothing sacred about Friday night OR Saturday night. Honestly, you are your own worst enemy.
No kidding. I rarely go out on Friday nights because I'm so wiped out after the work week. I often sit home and talk to friends on Fridays (they're not out partying it up either ) I go out on Saturdays a lot more than Fridays. Good grief, if you're BOTH on a dating site it's already kinda obvious you don't have a significant other. Personally, if a guy I was interested in was constantly ignoring me on Fridays and Saturdays I would assume he's dating other people and lose interest.
He is deliberately sabotaging himself. There is no other way to see it. And I'm not surprised now that his true colors came out in the other thread where his comments make it clear that he is only interested in a woman to use her for his own needs, not to find someone to care about.
He is deliberately sabotaging himself. There is no other way to see it. And I'm not surprised now that his true colors came out in the other thread where his comments make it clear that he is only interested in a woman to use her for his own needs, not to find someone to care about.
I will now join STT in being DONE!
Ah, but STT couldn't stay away. The train wreck is too hard to resist. You just gotta turn your head and look
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You didn't contact her. You sent an EMAIL. Did she respond? NO. That means - NO CONTACT. Get a clue here dude. PICK UP THE PHONE AND CALL HER.
) I go out on Saturdays a lot more than Fridays. Good grief, if you're BOTH on a dating site it's already kinda obvious you don't have a significant other. Personally, if a guy I was interested in was constantly ignoring me on Fridays and Saturdays I would assume he's dating other people and lose interest.
