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Old 01-15-2011, 01:15 PM
 
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I I like the face then I see what her interests are. The face is what you see first on a dating profil am I right?
Exactly. There is more to a person than their looks. But you shouldn't waste your time on someone you find unattractive.
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Old 01-15-2011, 01:21 PM
 
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Granted no one wants to date or meet someone that doesn't take care of their grooming or if they have something out of the ordinary like a big wart at the end of their nose but sometimes someone is unattractive until you really get to know them. Really get to know them from the inside.

I have known pretty people both men and women that are very, very attractive until you get to know them. Then they appear ugly to me.

I've meet some unattractive people and once I got to know them, I didn't even see their looks anymore.

I believe both of you need to stop looking at the exterior and really get to know the interior of people.
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Old 01-15-2011, 01:24 PM
 
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Also and I don't know why this is, men tend to want this super hot babe but they don't want to bother about their appearance. I've never been able to understand that. I had a brother like that. He didn't take care of himself but yet wanted a hot chick on his arm.

Doesn't make sense to me.
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Old 01-15-2011, 01:25 PM
 
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TVSG said he likes to find out about her interests after seeing her picture. He's not as shallow as some posters think. It sounds like TVSG likes to get to know the interior of people after he looks at the exterior. I don't see anything wrong with that. A completely shallow person would only look at the exterior.
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Old 01-15-2011, 01:26 PM
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Granted no one wants to date or meet someone that doesn't take care of their grooming or if they have something out of the ordinary like a big wart at the end of their nose but sometimes someone is unattractive until you really get to know them. Really get to know them from the inside.

I have known pretty people both men and women that are very, very attractive until you get to know them. Then they appear ugly to me.

I've meet some unattractive people and once I got to know them, I didn't even see their looks anymore.

I believe both of you need to stop looking at the exterior and really get to know the interior of people.


I have developed friendships with unattractive women at my job but that doesn't mean I want to date them because we get along so well.
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Old 01-15-2011, 01:30 PM
 
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I have developed friendships with unattractive women at my job but that doesn't mean I want to date them because we get along so well.

Yeah, that's right. You want a hot babe and you're....

Haven't seen your pic.
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Old 01-15-2011, 02:07 PM
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Yeah, that's right. You want a hot babe and you're....

Haven't seen your pic.
No I never said HOT but just someone I consider attractive to me. I never been into HOT just CUTE
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Old 01-16-2011, 09:08 AM
 
Location: The #1 sunshine state, Arizona.
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That's funny, because on a recent rant thread, you said, you removed your photo from a dating site. You claimed too many older women were responding to your ad.

Pot meet kettle. Once again, what is OK for you, is not OK for others. And you wonder why you can get past a first date.

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Old 01-16-2011, 09:10 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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What person in 2011 who is on a dating website LOOKS PAST a photo to see what they are really about?_lol If i don't like the face I don't wamt to know anything else
And in your other thread..... you said you removed your photo.
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Old 01-16-2011, 12:35 PM
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That's funny, because on a recent rant thread, you said, you removed your photo from a dating site. You claimed too many older women were responding to your ad.

Pot meet kettle. Once again, what is OK for you, is not OK for others. And you wonder why you can get past a first date.
I'm not into OLDER WOMAN. Since the age of 19, I always focused on females younger than me. What i the world would I do with a 50 something year old woman?
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