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I don't know but I can tell you when I was a teen in the early 90's there were 4 girls that were pregnant in one of my classes. One of them was from a strict religious family so there were promiscuous girls back then too.
From a mother's point of view watching the behaviour of the girls in our area, what is the deal with how easy girls make themselves for guys? Where have the morals gone to and the self esteem? I'm talking about good students with intact families that go to church, belong to clubs after school and plan on going to college but when it comes to guys, they give it up so easily before even dating and being in a committed relationship! A father I know found a maids costume, handcuffs and other "toys" in the back of his daughters car the other day. Of course the daughter said it didn't belong to her. Just a teenager! Any insight as to what has happened since the days we were teens in the 70's and 80's???
Why is the focus on the girls? If they are having sex with boys, then are not the boys "giving it up easy" also? And what is the IT that is being given up?
Ah, yes, it's the old double-standard virginity thing. Girls who have sex have no morals. Boys who have sex, just natural.
From a mother's point of view watching the behaviour of the girls in our area, what is the deal with how easy girls make themselves for guys? Where have the morals gone to and the self esteem? I'm talking about good students with intact families that go to church, belong to clubs after school and plan on going to college but when it comes to guys, they give it up so easily before even dating and being in a committed relationship! A father I know found a maids costume, handcuffs and other "toys" in the back of his daughters car the other day. Of course the daughter said it didn't belong to her. Just a teenager! Any insight as to what has happened since the days we were teens in the 70's and 80's???
Just an opinion, but I think that's where they went wrong...
Why is the focus on the girls? If they are having sex with boys, then are not the boys "giving it up easy" also? And what is the IT that is being given up?
Ah, yes, it's the old double-standard virginity thing. Girls who have sex have no morals. Boys who have sex, just natural.
In my opinion, the real problem is that girls dont truly want boys who respect them as people. They give a great deal of lip service to the idea because thats what they've been taught to say by their older and wiser mothers...but the actions of those young girls betray their words. Females in general have an innate need to be lusted as sex objects on some level. And males innately lust for them as such. The problem comes when their need to be lusted as sex objects actually becomes the central point of their lives. Which is why low self esteem becomes the achilles heel for many young girls.
Why is the focus on the girls? If they are having sex with boys, then are not the boys "giving it up easy" also? And what is the IT that is being given up?
Ah, yes, it's the old double-standard virginity thing. Girls who have sex have no morals. Boys who have sex, just natural.
Maybe most is an exaggeration but I would say that a large section of our modern society sees sex as nothing more than a commodity and something which means little.
One only has to look at the sheer size of the sex industry from prostitution to porn or simple things most of us accept as a normal daily part of the day like highly sexually suggestive and provocative music videos, films, fashion etc... to realise that kids hardly have the best example on show from their elders...
Why should a kid respect themselves when they fail to see so many adults do likewise ? Kids ape adults. They are dying to be grown up and what could be more grown up than sex when it is after all so important to us...
Sex has become nothing more special than having a glass of illicit booze or smoking a cigarette for many .
We are just sowing what we reaped. I find it heartbreaking because my the fondest memories of my teenage years were those exquisite ( and sometimes painful) moments of self discovery and growth, of being on the cusp of womanhood but with one foot still firmly in childhood.
A slow discovery not only my own body and its nascent desires but also of my own mind as a growing adolescent. Kids are being robbed of one of the most crucial elements of growth. They seem to jump from being children to being blase sexually experienced adults without the full maturity to handle it.
I Comply with what you say and I'll add that kids want happiness as much as adults want it, they want to feel special, they want to feel like their existence has meaning other than having obey their parents because they brought them to life. With the over emphasis on the sexual liberation of women and the daily messages girls get from magazines, T.V, friends...etc Its no wonder that they give up sex easily because they have come to see it as an act of love and compassion. Take for example Twilight the movies with the main character that has 2 man (obsessed with a girl - meta-message:infatuation is love) kicking the hell out of each other for her attention ( Geez girls talk about ED and Jacob so much...I wanna puke). Teenage Girls don't know what love is (they mistake infatuation (lust) with love. - when the infatuation is finished, I don't love you anymore bye bye, NEXT!!)
Equality seems to mean for modern teenage girls I have to hunt down as many guys as I can in order to be considered a woman. There are still exceptions.
I wonder did feminism really liberate women or it transformed them into walking little bed mates? At least what I discovered about the times before Madonna was that guys had to wait until marriage to actually get sex. This made men at least work on how to be a mature and responsible father figure.
I remember one conversation I had with one my female friend's who was extremely angry, because her mom told her she was too young to know what love was? She kept spitting fire saying her mom didn't understand her, that she was just old and didn't know what she is talking about.
Why are teenage girls are so easy these days? The breakdown of the family in American society is the reason WHY! Most Mom and Dads out there have absolutely NOTHING to offer their children in terms of morals, values, guidance or love. These girls are desperate for anybody to love them, so they start to equate sex with LOVE, and that is why they are so "easy". Most people who are "easy" have very low self esteem, usually children start to develop low self esteem when they don't feel loved by their parents, which supports my theory here
You can say "I love you" to your children a million times, if you don't mean what you say or don't show it by actions, it is nothing but EMPTY WORDS and kids know it.
I am very critical of our culture in the sense that, it seems like people have this need to say "I love you" all the time but most of the time, it does not mean a damn thing, or maybe they say it so often because deep inside, they know they don't love their children.
There is a parenting crisis in this country, and these "easy" girls are just a result of something that is totally messed up.
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Geez girls talk about ED and Jacob so much...I wanna puke). Teenage Girls don't know what love is (they mistake infatuation (lust) with love. - when the infatuation is finished, I don't love you anymore bye bye, NEXT!!) 