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Old 08-29-2010, 11:50 PM
 
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I think modesty is no longer taught, sex is no more than a handshake and there r not necessarily a negative social consequence for being an easy lay.

 
Old 08-30-2010, 01:47 AM
 
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Aren't teenage boys just as easy? Or are we expecting bad behavior from them?
Girls usually date older guys. A Gr. 12 girl might date a college sophomore.
 
Old 08-30-2010, 03:33 AM
 
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Girls usually date older guys. A Gr. 12 girl might date a college sophomore.
Teen guys date as well. And they are easy. What sort of label is that anyway? Teen people are still children for the most part, and children are easy to manipulate (by their group of friends, by society, by their family, etc). They're also eager to impress, terribly curious and are still learning what works for them. Plus, being on the way to adulthood, they search for their autonomy and do things the parents wouldn't approve. As long as nobody catches anything bad or gets pregnant, why not let them hit and miss? We all did, and do, after all...
 
Old 08-30-2010, 03:35 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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Teen guys date as well. And they are easy. What sort of label is that anyway? Teen people are still children for the most part, and children are easy to manipulate (by their group of friends, by society, by their family, etc). They're also eager to impress, terribly curious and are still learning what works for them. Plus, being on the way to adulthood, they search for their autonomy and do things the parents wouldn't approve. As long as nobody catches anything bad or gets pregnant, why not let them hit and miss? We all did, and do, after all...

Good post.

 
Old 08-30-2010, 03:41 AM
 
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Society blasts young people with so many sexually oriented messages... do you really not know the answer to the OP question?
 
Old 08-31-2010, 04:18 PM
 
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What's intriguing me the most is people here are judging sexually active teenage girls only because they will be judged by others. What the f*ck are you all talking about? Wake up, teenage girls have been sexually active for centuries. The last hundred years in American culture has been modest, but that doesn't mean it wasn't happening, it just means nobody talked about it.

The only difference now is, we're in an age of growing equality. Young women are deciding they shouldn't be ashamed of their sexuality and they shouldn't be ashamed of sex out of pure lust and enjoyment. They're deciding they want to high five each other just like the boys. You think you're shocked now, give it twenty years when the next generation takes it a bit further.

Get over it.
 
Old 08-31-2010, 05:16 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, TX
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i'll be damned if my future child starts having sex in 4th grade (since chances are by then that kids will be hitting puberty at age 5 if we continue to not give a **** about hormones in our food).
 
Old 09-01-2010, 07:14 AM
 
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i'll be damned if my future child starts having sex in 4th grade (since chances are by then that kids will be hitting puberty at age 5 if we continue to not give a **** about hormones in our food).
That's not far off from the truth. Girls are starting to hit puberty with alarming frequency at 7-8 years old now. Part of it is the obesity epidemic though, in that the added body fat serves to trigger the hormones that makes puberty kick in. Combine that with all the stuff they put in food these days...
 
Old 09-03-2010, 01:15 AM
 
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Teen guys date as well. And they are easy.
Being easy and finding it easy are two very different things.

Most of these "easy girls" are having sex with a very small percentage of young men.

Women don't like to think about the reasons but men are "confident" and experienced in turning their crank for a reason.

I suppose that it makes them feel better when they try to compare and "equate" the number of males in things like teen sex, STDs, single motherhood and other "moral hazards" as if there are just as many men involved but this is far from the truth.

Most men don't have the opportunity or the easy access. However, the few that do, more than make up for it. Usually, they are also the ones with little to offer, long term and not much to lose.

Much of the rest of the male population cannot afford to be involved, even if it were easy for them and they exhibit a lot of self control, as a result.
 
Old 09-03-2010, 04:33 AM
 
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Originally Posted by Jeezy is BACK View Post
What's intriguing me the most is people here are judging sexually active teenage girls only because they will be judged by others. What the f*ck are you all talking about? Wake up, teenage girls have been sexually active for centuries. The last hundred years in American culture has been modest, but that doesn't mean it wasn't happening, it just means nobody talked about it.

The only difference now is, we're in an age of growing equality. Young women are deciding they shouldn't be ashamed of their sexuality and they shouldn't be ashamed of sex out of pure lust and enjoyment. They're deciding they want to high five each other just like the boys. You think you're shocked now, give it twenty years when the next generation takes it a bit further.

Get over it.
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