Gee, you sound like a great person---can I be you for a day! With what you bring to this area, you would fit nicely. Boulder would be welcoming and fit your lifestyle. I would certainly look into the great vibrant neighborhoods of Denver--near South Pearl (Platt Park), Central Platt Valley, Golden.
For a job, I have a suggestion that will fit you nicely, The United States Antarctic Program
U.S. Antarctic Program: Welcome to the USAP Portal is operated out of the Denver area through a contractor. The manning of all the stations, field camps are coordinated through this company, It is Ratheon Polar Service
Raytheon Polar Services Company - Raytheon Polar Services Home Page
I worked as a full time employee there but most employees go down for seasonal work for 6 months and some a full year. The bad thing about it you have to go to New Zealand

and then take a flight on a military aircraft to McMurdo, or a flight to the South Pole Station

or you may be forced to go through Chile and Take a boat trip, across the Straits of Magellen to Palmer Station

And the women you meet--oh, the strongest, toughest, and most athletic--what a terrible job----can I be you????
