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But in this case she even admitted it. There's an excerpt in her book where she talks about dragging him around by his hoodie after punching him to the ground. She deserves to be outed as domestic abuser just like any other public figure would be.
Please...if your woman beats your ass, you **** and get on with life.
I don't know the details of this particular relationship, but I agree with the sentiment that women abusers need to be called out too. There's no reason other than self defense for anyone to punch anyone else. If he did take naked pictures of her without her consent, then that might be another exception to the rule in my book. Depends on what he did with the photos, I guess. If he showed them to anyone else, or even just threatened to, then that's a sexual assault IMHO.
Some of us women get away with too much. I know women who berate their man, call them names, attack their manhood, all while screaming an inch from their face. They even get away with physically hitting them as long as they don't leave a conspicuous mark. Then the minute the man physically restrains them to get them to stop, the police take the woman's side. There are some psycho biotches out there!
It used to be that the cops always took the man's side because it's the man's right to do whatever he pleases in his home. He's the boss. Now to make up for the past, it seems the pendulum has swung too far the other way.
I don't know exactly how to accomplish it, but we need to find a happy medium. When it's his word against hers, that's a tough call for a responding police officer, or really anyone else who wasn't there when it happened, to make.
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I don't know the details of this particular relationship, but I agree with the sentiment that women abusers need to be called out too. There's no reason other than self defense for anyone to punch anyone else. If he did take naked pictures of her without her consent, then that might be another exception to the rule in my book. Depends on what he did with the photos, I guess. If he showed them to anyone else, or even just threatened to, then that's a sexual assault IMHO.
Some of us women get away with too much. I know women who berate their man, call them names, attack their manhood, all while screaming an inch from their face. They even get away with physically hitting them as long as they don't leave a conspicuous mark. Then the minute the man physically restrains them to get them to stop, the police take the woman's side. There are some psycho biotches out there!
It used to be that the cops always took the man's side because it's the man's right to do whatever he pleases in his home. He's the boss. Now to make up for the past, it seems the pendulum has swung too far the other way.
I don't know exactly how to accomplish it, but we need to find a happy medium. When it's his word against hers, that's a tough call for a responding police officer, or really anyone else who wasn't there when it happened, to make.
I hated domestic calls. There was many times I felt someone was being dishonest. The problem is if you are wrong and someone kills their partner you will lose your job. Many times they were involved in a divorce proceeding and they know call the cops at any chance. Get the reports and then you get your spouse thrown out of the house by the judge. Yes of course the police need to be there if someone is legitimately being abused. It is what it is. The OJ Simpson case change DV calls in America forever. The reports are so extensive now. You even have to ask if their are guns in the house and if there are then you have to confiscate them. Again me as the PO I am not risking my job because I have any opinion on an incident.
Timothy DiGorrio, former boyfriend of UFC fighter Ronda Rousey, claims domestic violence was the reason for their break up earlier this year. He claims Rousey was verbally and physically abusive towards him. “She lowered my self-esteem and she’d beat me to a pulp. I was at times, terrified” claims DiGorrio
Was there proof like a police report? Perhaps they need something other than hearsay. IDK.
I don't know the details of this particular relationship, but I agree with the sentiment that women abusers need to be called out too. There's no reason other than self defense for anyone to punch anyone else. If he did take naked pictures of her without her consent, then that might be another exception to the rule in my book. Depends on what he did with the photos, I guess. If he showed them to anyone else, or even just threatened to, then that's a sexual assault IMHO.
Some of us women get away with too much. I know women who berate their man, call them names, attack their manhood, all while screaming an inch from their face. They even get away with physically hitting them as long as they don't leave a conspicuous mark. Then the minute the man physically restrains them to get them to stop, the police take the woman's side. There are some psycho biotches out there!
It used to be that the cops always took the man's side because it's the man's right to do whatever he pleases in his home. He's the boss. Now to make up for the past, it seems the pendulum has swung too far the other way.
I don't know exactly how to accomplish it, but we need to find a happy medium. When it's his word against hers, that's a tough call for a responding police officer, or really anyone else who wasn't there when it happened, to make.
Maybe -- even in the most intimate relationships -- we should respect and care for and defer to the partner as much as is possible … ???
Well lets be honest he took naked pictures of her when she had no idea that he was doing it. She found it on his cellphone and kicked his ass. No it does not excuse her hitting him however its more complicated than she just decided to beat him up.
you pretty much said he deserved it...which if you're really a retired police....wow. when Chris Brown beat up Rihanna were the first words from you, "Let's be honest.
Domestic violence is domestic violence. I would have respected your comment more if you'd just said, "Let's be honest, there's a double standard."
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