My fiance recently moved back to his hometown of Birmingham,AL from Los Angeles,CA with the goal of finding a job so he could take care of his family. He looked for a job here in LA for over a year a could not find anything, in the words of Gladys Knight, "L.A. proved too much for the man"
. So he left here back in January and after a month of being back home he secured a position and is currently in training. He has informed me that once he finds an apartment/house he likes ( he is currently staying with family) I am going to need to start tying up loose ends here in L.A. and get ready to make the move to B'HAM. Of course everyone here says that I won't like it, the climate and the culture are too different,AL is 20 years behind the rest of the country, etc., etc., etc. Now, I am a Southern California girl to my heart,
but I am open to change, I have learned how to trust God and have been taught to, stick by my man(soon to be husband), and to follow where he leads. I look forward to this new experience, however,, I'm looking for feedback from any SoCAL or West Coast transplants on your experiences moving from this part of the country to the south. Was there culture shock, how did you deal with weather change, do you feel you made the right decision? What is the job market like ( I currently work in print production, trying to get more in to interactive/online media, but open to any type of client/media services)homes, people, churches, whatever? Just want honest feedback from someone that has done what I am planning to do.
Any feedback given is totally appreciated!
Thanks!
RELOCATING - HELP IN ALL AREAS
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