How to I say “I can’t afford that”

[Alonso Gil]

Originally Posted by Bandon

I've never understood this "taboo" either. I struggle with it as well. My brother and his wife (who is from a seriously moneyed family) were visiting a few months ago and we all went out to dinner. They talked about doing a LOT of things I couldn't afford and could only dream of doing. They both have brand new vehicles and were talking about those, while I'm stuck driving a 97 ford focus that is slowly dying and I have no idea how I'll replace it. Yes, I'm a little envious of my brothers lifestyle, but still I try to be polite and do the smile and nod...but it's uncomfortable when he says things like "Why don't you just get a new....?".....because of the seeming taboo against basically openly saying "I'm poor...helllloooo" lol

First say "I can't afford it". If he ever says it again, the proper response to a rude question like that is "because I'm not made of money like you are".

[HappyFarm34]

Entertaining and socializing doesn't have to always cost a bunch of money. Offer other suggestions that won't break the piggy bank. Go hiking or the beach, have a game night or play cards. Have a picnic in the park with everyone bringing a dish to pass.

This is if family/friends live close by. If they live further away, I can understand since gas can be expensive.