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She also is completely fake now. Fake nose, fake teeth, boob job, used to have a healthy figure now looks too skinny. My friend ran into her and said she seemed like a Stepford Wife.
In a couple of posts she went from BBF in HS to fake Stepford Wife. You ran with the wrong crowd and she is successful per your posts. What do you want from her 25 years later out of the blue?
You say here that you would never be like this in "real life" only on a forum. You are or you are not. What is the big deal with FB?
You are gossiping in a mean and viscous manner about someone you have not had contact with for 25 years because she does not want to be your friend.
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Then why is she still friends with someone else who knew her before?
You really need to grow up. You must be in your 40s by now, you're certainly old enough to remember life before social media. I could understand a younger person making an issue of this as many of them think social media is very important, as this is what they grew up with. But people in their 30s and 40s and older....come on.
Since she is successful, it is likely she needs to maintain a positive public image, so she is curating the people she allows to be seen to be associated with her. You mentioned that you had some questionable associates in the past, so it is possible that she is concerned that they, or at least their influences, have followed you into the present. You made your choices, she is making hers. Let it go.
ONe thing I do find troubling is how you friended her sister to get to your old friend, which comes across as manipulative and sneaky, and maybe that is the reason you were blocked.
She also is completely fake now. Fake nose, fake teeth, boob job, used to have a healthy figure now looks too skinny. My friend ran into her and said she seemed like a Stepford Wife.
Saying this was unnecessary.
She was your friend 25 years ago. We were all different people then. Our lives change, our interests change, most of us have a different friend set. She may have memories of you that make her feel you are not a good fit in her current life. It doesn't mean it's true in the here and now, but her perception of you is likely based on the past. It is easier to nip things in the bud than deal with a problem later. So she stayed friends with someone else but not you. That's her choice. You have no reason to be upset. After not seeing you for 25 years it really isn't a reflection on you. Your comments, however anonymous, about her being a Stepford wife pretty much is.
That just seems like a strange reason to block someone, though. Because they didn't get a college degree?
I have a cousin who won't associate with anybody, family included, if they don't have a college degree. He isn't doing any better than we are. He's already had a home foreclosed on, a couple vehicles repossessed, and lost on a few horrible and very obvious ponzi scheme investments. The differences between he and us is we haven't had any of those idiotic financial situations happen to us.
Firstly, I don't know why some people think you are "trash-talking" her. I don't see that at all. Can't someone start a thread & ask a few questions about someone? Sheesh!
Anyway, doesn't sound like anyone you'd want to be friends w/ nowadays anyway. Sure, she's
rich & successful, but, she seems like a pretentious, fake, smug b!tC#...I'm sure quite narcissistic too. Who cares if she blocks you or not. She went off to college, got an oversized head & thinks she's better than you & probably everyone else, except those just like her. Who cares if she purposely sought you out on social media & blocked you. That just shows she wants NO chance whatsoever of ever crossing paths w/ you. She's made that clear. Again, who cares, so be it.
And I wish that one day, you actually run into her somewhere. If I were you, I'd make it SO obvious that I was totally ignoring her. Have your head held high, glance her right in the eye, but turn your head & don't even utter one word to her. Who the F does she think she is?!
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