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Old 12-04-2010, 04:40 PM
 
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I would have my daughter tested for STDs and AIDs, that way she understands the responsibility that goes along with being promiscuous.
Having sex does not mean she is promiscuous. Having sex with many partners means she is promiscuous.

 
Old 12-04-2010, 04:58 PM
 
Location: In a house
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Of course I meant the boy, for my daughters(have two), being chained to a wall behind a moat guarded with land mines, attack dogs, and automated gun turrets while dressed in a burqa, would not be able to partake in such debauchery of their own volition.

My son of course, is free to do as he pleases and I wish him thousands of sexual conquests. The double standard is alive and well.
Hey if you can guarantee that I'll have my own set of eunuchs to feed me, sing to me, read to me, bathe me, drape me in the finest silk burqas, and that I get free reign to name each of those guard dogs...

I'm up for adoption.

Oh and the eunuchs have to be good looking.
 
Old 12-04-2010, 06:11 PM
 
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Just so everyone know The Pregnancy Pact is on Lifetime right now:P
 
Old 12-04-2010, 06:13 PM
 
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Thanks for warning us! I'll avoid Lifetime tonight!
 
Old 12-04-2010, 06:18 PM
 
Location: maryland
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Thanks for warning us! I'll avoid Lifetime tonight!

Well hopes if you don't go to heaven we know what your hell will be like now .
 
Old 12-04-2010, 10:20 PM
 
Location: Elsewhere
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During the spin cycle?
Can't rep you again, but that was a good one.
 
Old 12-04-2010, 10:32 PM
 
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Ok I'm not a parent but I don't think teens should be having sex at all. As much as I would hope they would be abstinent I would just talk to her about safe sex/BC and pray that she's responsible. Her bf might not be allowed to come over but if they really want to have sex they'd find a place to do it.

Stuff like this makes me not wanna have kids.
 
Old 12-05-2010, 06:17 AM
 
Location: On the Rails in Northern NJ
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Ny state has very odd laws regarding stat rape....depending on the age you have to be between 4 to 5 years older to really be charged with anything......so if he was 18 and she was 14 nothing could happen as long as it was a 4 year or less gap.
Yea thats what i call a stretch.....you would think its 2 years....but each state is different. Its also differs between gays and straights ....Gay ppl in many state can't consent till there 18 , while straights get away with it starting at 14 or 15. So for ive always stuck to the in my current age rule , however in the gay teen world that is not really followed.......while i'll always stick with my rules , alot people won't. I know a few Gay Teens who are 16/17 and secretly date upper 20s....while i find that inappropriate they don't.......which i find very disturbing......there seems to be a Boundary Issue and a right / wrong problem in this Country. As for my Straight friends , the ones that have the strictest , and most religious parents....are the biggest sex freaks....the can't help them selfs....and if the parents try to intervene it makes it worse...sometimes drinking is involved or worse in the format of drugs......but in my opinion telling them to have Sex is not a good idea. I also have a few friends that had parents encourage them to have sex , that is wrong in my opinion....that makes turn into prevs....or worse...... So the bottom line here is don't encourage or restrict your teens in the sex dept , teach them boundaries in the age dept.

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Old 12-05-2010, 06:46 AM
 
Location: USA
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Sex is a healthy activity. Be glad your kid is normal.
You have heard of AIDS.....herpes.....??? Just wondering....
 
Old 12-05-2010, 07:10 AM
 
Location: On the Rails in Northern NJ
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You have heard of AIDS.....herpes.....??? Just wondering....
Well not if you use Protection....which tends to happen more in the Gay Community more then Straight community....
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