So we're gonna go on a date... (how to, women, advice)
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That's hardly a way to determine anything anyway. Somebody may be up to his ears in debt and take a woman to a fancy place to impress her. Another may be wealthy and stingy and/or suspicious and take her to some hole in the wall. She can always drop you after she doesn't like the place you take her to or finds out what your profession and living situation are. What you are talking about would be some really, really dumb gold-digger.
I agree with the other posters..She probably wanted to know what to wear...We girls agonize over this stuff and it's stressful..We want to look good for our dates....Give her a few more dates before you kick her to the curb!
Of course, you are over analyzing the question. What if you are going for a picnic on the beach or to dinner and a show? Would you dress the same for both? No, of course not, she just needs to know what to expect, so that she can dress accordingly. She might even be just trying to make conversation. Just relax, and have fun.
I agree with the other posters..She probably wanted to know what to wear...We girls agonize over this stuff and it's stressful..We want to look good for our dates....Give her a few more dates before you kick her to the curb!
.........and to mention the cuisine, possible food allerigies, or in the extreme case; phobias (eg; you might want to take her rock climbing & she's afraid of heights).
So what's the big deal about her asking what your plans are for the date? Were you trying to surprise her? Or are you worried that she isn't going to like where you are taking her?
I think that it's very natural for her to ask what the plans are. And if I were the one asking a guy out on a date, I would also expect him to query me about what I had in mind for fun. People just like to be prepared, and to dress accordingly.
(our 2nd... the first went quite well, but it was just coffee...)
So I call her to tell her I'm gonna pick her up at given time... she asks, "where are we going?"
Now, I'm known by some here to be overanalytical, but is this a bad sign? Because I'm not going, of course, to take her to McDonald's or the town pizzeria or to take-out Chinese.
Nonetheless, is this in any way a dangerous sign? Or am I just overreacting?
Nah, she is just being curious as to what the plans are. Not a bad sign at all.
Where I live, there are so many options as to where a date might lead, I would need to know what kind of shoes to wear (outdoor vs indoor, walking vs stationary).
If you are so worried about gold diggers being out to get you, why choose a handle like "Sprawling Homeowner" over a handle a little less boastful?
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