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Well, I definitely like sex and am a more pleasant person when I am having it. Sure, if there is no warm body around, I will settle for masturbation, but then I'd have to do it again too. Nothing compares to a warm live body. And if you can add some feelings into the equation???? it's a winner.
As a female, I have always believed women have the higher sex drive than men and generally enjoy sex more. Most of the women I've known have agreed. I will exclude teenagers or couples in their early 20's, when testosterone peaks for a man. After 40, I am convinced that women have BY FAR the higher sex drive than most men. I realize this is a generalization and there are exceptions to every rule.
Whenever men say, "all women hate sex," I believe they have been stuck married to a woman with no libido or have limited experience with ladies.
As for the original question, I've found people raised with a lot of ridiculous religious notions are often inhibited sexually, especially women. And millions of men suffer from low testosterone and this renders erections next to impossible. So there are plenty of legitimate physical reasons why men wouldn't even think about sex.
intimacy is a complex multi layered experience for many people and if there are hang ups on one level it may inhibit others including the enjoyment of sex.
Well, I definitely like sex and am a more pleasant person when I am having it. Sure, if there is no warm body around, I will settle for masturbation, but then I'd have to do it again too. Nothing compares to a warm live body. And if you can add some feelings into the equation???? it's a winner.
A warm live body almost makes me want to throw up. I prefer to use a man for foreplay, feed off the energy and excitement and finish off myself
It feels good to YOU...unfortunately you don't represent everyone. People who have had negative experiences involving sex (molested as a child, raped) probably feel differently than you do.
There may be something else going on also...for example, a friend of mine is celibate and plans to remain that way for the rest of her life....but she's also very sick and probably feels no man would be attracted to her that way because of her health issues.
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Originally Posted by DFOR
As a male, I guess I direct this more toward women. But realize that there are some men not interested.
Maybe it is as simple as their partners. But once in a while I'll read that someone doesn't care if they only have sex a few times per year. I don't understand this. It feels good, especially physically, but emotionally also.
It just gets really boring after awhile. It was good in the beginning but then the novelty wears off really fast. At least for me.
Anything can become a mechanical routine. Get a creative partner. Discuss all sorts of fantasies. Decide which can be possible. And, sometimes, a good remedy is to change partners.
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