how has the lack of clear gender roles effected our relationships?

[onihC]

Originally Posted by Cindy_Jole

I have been asked out and I have done the asking. Sometimes he pays, sometimes I pay, sometimes we split. Sometimes he drives, sometimes I drive. No gender roles there. Does that cover your list?

Somehow it does . How long does it take you to start asking a guy out? that is, how long did you date them before you started asking them out?

[onihC]

Originally Posted by boodhabunny

Actually, they do. I was suspected of being lesbian when I was single for a long time, mowed my own lawn, changed the oil in my car, and wore short hair.

Howcome you don't do those things anymore?

[boodhabunny]

I still do, onihC. The only difference is that I grew my hair out (for a change of scenery) and got married.

OK, we do hire landscapers now to help me because our property is high maintenance and I can't handle it on my own.
I still change the oil in my car. It's a vintage sports car and needs frequent oil changes. I don't trust other people to do it properly.

[2mares]

Originally Posted by Java378

I notice more women think more men are "gay" for doing things like having a garden, designing dresses(which male designers do anyways), or having a gay realtor.

Strangely, the same person does not want to think that if a woman takes up construction, goes into the military, or enjoys physical sports.

Wow, you notice what women think. How does that work.
Im confused about the men having gay realtors. Maybe its a geographical thing. I wasnt aware people "had" a realtor. I can see maybe if it were a gay massage therapist.
Actually, more men than women garden in my neck of the woods.