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Im actually pretty effeminate and most women dont find that attractive, I get hit on by gays almost daily, Im not gay but they dont seem to get that [/quote]
I actually like men who are SLIGHTLY effeminate Soft-eyed, gentle..
I'm going to assume you are all way too young to have some staying power with the ladies or holding your own in the confidence stakes. At that age most guys go off the deep end and make unfounded assumtptions that all pretty women are taken, without even a moment notice or taking the time to deduce what is really going on. It would help if you at least tried to say a few words to her and gauge her personality, and initially take things on face value. Too many guys think that looks are the be all and end all of what constitutes a persons appeal. As you wise up you will understand that good looks are common.
Do you know how quickly women get stumped when they are trying to get a guys attention and some of them ask if they are pretty, and in response a guy might cooly say....yeh good looks are just too common in this city, what really goes the distance is a great pair..... of eyes that can gaze through BS and really connect with a guys soul. Then take a sip at your drink and enjoy the music, like you were just making an observation to your bratty sister. Not disrespectfully but just matter-of-factly.... I think most women like to be spoken to as an equal and not as the queen of Sheeba. If a guy puts a girl up on a pedestal too quickly, things get superficial and boring way fast. And the last thing a lady wants is a guy trying to say all the right things to get into bed with her. Guys...try saying the wrong things sometimes....at least if its 99% honest.
I am sure CancerianMoonPrincess is easy on the eyes. But personally I am more into artistic girls with deep thoughtful minds that reflect insightfully on everything. Btw those photos don't work CancerianMoonPrincess
I am sure CancerianMoonPrincess is easy on the eyes. But personally I am more into artistic girls with deep thoughtful minds that reflect insightfully on everything. Btw those photos don't work CancerianMoonPrincess
Funny because I am actually artistic. I have some pieces on deviantart. Thanks for the insight though.
Sorry about the photos. For some strange reason, only people in my contacts can see even if my profile isn't private.
I'm going to assume you are all way too young to have some staying power with the ladies or holding your own in the confidence stakes. At that age most guys go off the deep end and make unfounded assumtptions that all pretty women are taken, without even a moment notice or taking the time to deduce what is really going on. It would help if you at least tried to say a few words to her and gauge her personality, and initially take things on face value. Too many guys think that looks are the be all and end all of what constitutes a persons appeal. As you wise up you will understand that good looks are common.
Do you know how quickly women get stumped when they are trying to get a guys attention and some of them ask if they are pretty, and in response a guy might cooly say....yeh good looks are just too common in this city, what really goes the distance is a great pair..... of eyes that can gaze through BS and really connect with a guys soul. Then take a sip at your drink and enjoy the music, like you were just making an observation to your bratty sister. Not disrespectfully but just matter-of-factly.... I think most women like to be spoken to as an equal and not as the queen of Sheeba. If a guy puts a girl up on a pedestal too quickly, things get superficial and boring way fast. And the last thing a lady wants is a guy trying to say all the right things to get into bed with her. Guys...try saying the wrong things sometimes....at least if its 99% honest.
Wow, I wish I could rep you twice for that. Great insight for the men.
I respected women greatly, but I never was able to have a girlfriend. They just wanted to be friends. It's great to have someone whom you can relate to like that, but I guarantee you that you didn't get to a romantic/sexual relationship with her by relating to her the same as you would a man.
Yes I did. We would go out in groups and sometime act like buddies. You don't just romance 24/7 or else things can get boring fast.
Funny because I am actually artistic. I have some pieces on deviantart. Thanks for the insight though.
Sorry about the photos. For some strange reason, only people in my contacts can see even if my profile isn't private.
I was being facetious CancerianMoonPrincess I saw your profile and noticed that you are artistic and more power to you for that of course. And yeh as a fellow artist I would appreciate seeing your deviantart sometime. Cheers.
The guys who said No are the ones who are most likely to end up with this hot girl then the Guys who said Yes.
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Soft-eyed, gentle..
Cheers.
