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Please help me understand this. I went on a date about three weeks ago with a guy I met through Match.com. First date was great! We had a lot of chemistry, laughs, and just a good time all around.
We talked everyday after that and he asked me out on a second date. Another great time. Again, talked every day after that and he asked me out for yet another date. This date happened to be 3 days after my bday, so when I met him, he surprised me with a small gift. A perfume. I was not expecting it at all, but thanked him for his kindness. We had yet another great time, laughs, a few kisses, and then parted ways.
We continued to talk every day after that. He tells me he has to travel for work the following week and would like to see me before he leaves. I wanted to see him too as I liked him but the time between his flight and some work events I had going on at the time made it impossible for us to see each other. That was last Wednesday. He sent me a text on Friday afternoon just to know how my day was going and to make plans for Sunday as he said he'd be back in town on Saturday night. We agreed on seeing each other on Sunday. I'd come over to his place and we'd order Thai food as we both like it.
On Satuday afternoon I sent him a text to wish him a safe flight home, he replied right away and said: "Thank you. I am about to board. I will call you tonight." He never called, but when I when I woke up on Sunday morning I saw a text from him on my phone which he sent at 10:42pm on Saturday saying "Buenas Noches" (good night in Spanish), he did that most nights when we talked or texted. When I saw the text I replied asking him how was his flight. He never answered. Last night I decided to call him, he did not answer either so I left him a voicemail saying that I hoped he was OK.
Today my friend calls me to ask me about him, and to say that I should check online to see if he's been on. I clicked on his profile from the first email he sent me and Match.com's reply was "this profile is not longer available." I am like, wtf?. Everything seemed good and then all of the sudden he disappears and deletes his profile. I just think is too much coincidence all of this happened when I was supposed to go to his house.
I am soooo glad I did not sleep with him because instead of feeling confused, I'd be feeling like crap right now. Stuff like this make me scrach my head and sometimes I feel like I should just give up on the whole dating scene, but I know for a fact that there are great guys out there, so I won't let this bring me down but I had to vent.
I don't know what to think anymore other than he was married and his wife caught him. If he changed his mine about me, why not telling me? I am a big girl, I can take it. But if he was single and not into me any longer, why delete his profile? Has any of you ever experienced something like this?
Could be several things, but if he was able to talk to you everyday and at random times, he probably wasn't married.
Could have met someone else? Back with an EX? Who knows...
Did you friend him on Facebook?
But he wasn't able to talk to her at random times. Remember, sometimes she said she received no response from him. And he could have been using Buenas Noches instead of Good Night because he could explain that away more readily. He could say that's the way he talks to his co-workers or buddies when they text him, for instance. Probably married. Ah well. Never mind. You dodged a bullet if he was married and he was trying turn you into his little playmate when he is traveling for business, you deserve better than sneaking around with some loser who can't tell the truth to save his life. Just don't go so fast next time. Don't agree to see a guy you just met two three days in a row. That was a little fast, in my opinion. If you go slow you can catch discrepancies before you involve your emotions. I bet even finding out early even stings a bit, so be more careful.
But he wasn't able to talk to her at random times. Remember, sometimes she said she received no response from him. And he could have been using Buenas Noches instead of Good Night because he could explain that away more readily. He could say that's the way he talks to his co-workers or buddies when they text him, for instance. Probably married. Ah well. Never mind. You dodged a bullet if he was married and he was trying turn you into his little playmate when he is traveling for business, you deserve better than sneaking around with some loser who can't tell the truth to save his life. Just don't go so fast next time. Don't agree to see a guy you just met two three days in a row. That was a little fast, in my opinion. If you go slow you can catch discrepancies before you involve your emotions. I bet even finding out early even stings a bit, so be more careful.
The dates were once a week. I don't think that was too fast, but I respect your opinion.
It's been a while since the tables have been open here at Las City-Data, so for all you compulsive gamblers, this one's for you. Bets will be accepted until the OP returns with a clear explanation for this guy's odd behavior. Lots of solid plays on this one, and like always, if you're gonna sin, WIN!
MARRIED 3:1 (Bet $1 to win $3)
OTHER LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP (GIRLFRIEND/FIANCEE) 3:1
PLAYER/FOUND SOMEONE WHO WOULD PUT OUT FASTER 4:1
DEVELOPED FEELINGS FOR SOMEONE ELSE 4:1
PERFORMANCE ANXIETY/SMALL PENIS 8:1
GAY 15:1
DEAD 90:1
Tables are open! Don't trip over each other on the way to get your bets in.
Didn't it ever occur to you or anybody on this thread that he took the profile down because he found YOU?! Amazingly enough, I'm usually accused of being a party pooper.
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. Everything seemed good and then all of the sudden he disappears and deletes his profile. I just think is too much coincidence all of this happened when I was supposed to go to his house. 
