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View Poll Results: So women...what is the thing that matters the most when dating a man?
his personality 27 37.50%
his looks 2 2.78%
the kind of job he has 2 2.78%
his sense of humor 6 8.33%
his education 1 1.39%
the kind of car he drives 1 1.39%
the kind of friends and family he has 1 1.39%
his hygiene 2 2.78%
the amount of money he has 10 13.89%
his manners 2 2.78%
his background 2 2.78%
his health 1 1.39%
his intelligence 4 5.56%
his religion 0 0%
other 11 15.28%
Voters: 72. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 12-30-2011, 01:51 PM
 
Location: Mammoth Lakes, CA
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There's not just one thing and anyone who can break attraction down to one thing probably hasn't been in a long-term relationship. I've had chemistry with men I found ugly and I've seen gorgeous men who were dumb as planks and thus were not appealing.

Falling in love comprises losts of little things which add up into one big thing: sense of humor, body, intelligence, common interests, looks... and lots more. The poll choices are ultimately ridiculous. Who would pick "type of car" as the most important thing to look for in a man?

What if it's Charles Manson driving a Lamborghini? He gets a pass?
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Old 12-30-2011, 01:51 PM
 
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Why answer when we are only going to get some of the guys pontificate on how we only want money and hot looks.
Why not answer ? You can share the truth with us ... and your vote have equal weight as those of the lying men. Not answering the question is a cop out ...
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Old 12-30-2011, 01:52 PM
 
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Op, I wish it was an open poll. I'd like to see which two guys voted for the money option.
Yeah, this is one poll that probably would be better as an open poll, so the votes of guys could be discounted by readers ...
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Old 12-30-2011, 02:28 PM
 
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Yeah, this is one poll that probably would be better as an open poll, so the votes of guys could be discounted by readers ...
Yea, and you know there are guys voting in this poll.

Any how, since we couldn't choose multiple options (I agree with some of the other women here) I chose intelligence. I figure if I'm talking to a guy to begin with he's good looking, so no need to worry about that (if I were single of course). If I met him via my friends or in my scene he's probably pretty cool and probably educated. Personality and intelligence are intimately tied, so I settled on that one. It's a huge plus that my husband hails from an excellent family and upbringing.
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Old 12-30-2011, 02:38 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Op, I wish it was an open poll. I'd like to see which two guys voted for the money option.
Yeah, seriously! I didn't even vote! Maybe I'll vote for sense of humor - but honestly, a sense of humor alone isn't going to cut it. Then again, for me, lack of a sense of humor would pretty much rule a guy out. So would lack of intelligence.

Money comes and money goes. Money doesn't have anything to do with love in my book.
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Old 12-30-2011, 02:58 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Height, money and good looks, duh!!!

Ok, in reality it's a combination of things but for me one of the biggest is sense of humor. I've got a dark and slightly offensive sense of humor and I just LOVE when a guy can keep up
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Old 12-30-2011, 06:20 PM
 
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Yea, and you know there are guys voting in this poll.

Probably
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Old 12-30-2011, 08:24 PM
 
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What matters is what they really go for not what they say. Go with facts not what they say.
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Old 12-30-2011, 08:30 PM
 
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Op, I wish it was an open poll. I'd like to see which two guys voted for the money option.

It's 3 guys now.
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Old 12-30-2011, 08:48 PM
 
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It's 3 guys now.
Up to 4 guys. Hmm, maybe men find personal value by having money. I wish the people voting for the money option would pipe in.
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