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While I am attracted to some ladies with more curves than most, at some point, when they go well past plump and into obese, yeah, at that point it's a deal breaker.
I was dating a chubbier guy for a short time, overlooking the belly and how he never ordered the healthier option...well I couldn't take it any longer..not because of his weight...BUT he would always make it known of how "skinny" girls were it! Dayum he would check out any chick with two inch space between her thighs and drool... I had to dump him...he was no match to me physically and yet complaining how I wasn't a twig. Jerk!!!
She can call me when she's finished losing weight. I wouldn't hold that against anyone, that is expecting someone to be in decent shape before starting a physical relationship with them. It definitely would affect things in bed.
It can take weeks of getting to know a person before it gets anywhere close to the in-bed stage. If she has her act together, and depending on how often she's seeing a guy, she could lose 20 lbs. or more before things progress to the serious stage. Mod cut: sexist generalization. What counts is what kind of shape she's in when the relationship does progress to the clothes-removal stage.
People who take care of themselves probably have better skin. And that is pretty much the only visible sign. People can be wet active and overweight and super sedentary and thin. The best way to find out if your potential mate is active is to ask instead of gauging on physical appearance. You can find you will be supremely disappointed.
Yes. If you're fat then why would I settle for someone overweight when I'm perfectly happy being single anyway? I might try to hook up with you if I'm on a dry spell and you were pretty much throwing yourself at me....depending on how much alcohol is in my blood stream I may consider it.
It can take weeks of getting to know a person before it gets anywhere close to the in-bed stage. If she has her act together, and depending on how often she's seeing a guy, she could lose 20 lbs. or more before things progress to the serious stage. Mod cut: sexist generalization. What counts is what kind of shape she's in when the relationship does progress to the clothes-removal stage.
It's an exclusivity risk that most guys just aren't willing to take. Odds are she doesn't lose the weight, and if she does: odds are she'll put it back on.
My ex, yes ex got super fat after being super fine. Bye dont let the door hit you on the way out even though you cant help it because you cant get your entire body out before the door closes.
People who take care of themselves probably have better skin. And that is pretty much the only visible sign. People can be wet active and overweight and super sedentary and thin. The best way to find out if your potential mate is active is to ask instead of gauging on physical appearance. You can find you will be supremely disappointed.
I knew someone would bring this up.
There are people who are physically fit who are overweight, but I have yet to meet a fit person who is also grossly fat. The former tend to be thicker and carrying more muscle which when plussed with a fine (healthy) layer of fat can bring the appearance of a thicker woman. That is attractive; muscle on a woman is very attractive.
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