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So? Suddenly it's 'simply not true' because you're in the small percentage of men (I don't know your age) that don't want FWB or hook ups as a replacement for relationships? Still, doesn't change that majority of the ones I came across are only interested in the latter and I'm not the only woman on here to say they've experienced this. Now I can see the older ones being more like you, but sorry, not the 20s, 30s.
How can you chide him for making generalizations when you do it all the time? There are plenty of guys out there looking for a booty call, but not all of them, probably not even most of them. I have nice guy friends, my friends have nice boyfriends/husband who aren't just looking for a hook up. I'm not sure what experiences you've had that have made you become so bitter against men, but not all men are jerks out to screw over women. And I say that a woman who has been screwed over a lot.
I have nice guy friends, my friends have nice boyfriends/husband who aren't just looking for a hook up. I'm not sure what experiences you've had that have made you become so bitter against men, but not all men are jerks out to screw over women.
Thank you, I agree 100%. Very few of the men I've known in my life are out for one night stands or hook ups. Have I known guys that only care about hitting n' quitting it? Sure, but very few. It has to come down to the type of men people surround themselves with. If a woman is ONLY meeting men who want a one-night stand, then they are looking in the wrong places or don't know how to connect with a "decent" man. There are millions of them out there.
I'm so sick of women constantly moaning, "All men are only after one thing." If you only hang with such types, blame yourself.
Thank you, I agree 100%. Very few of the men I've known in my life are out for one night stands or hook ups. Have I known guys that only care about hitting n' quitting it? Sure, but very few. It has to come down to the type of men people surround themselves with. If a woman is ONLY meeting men who want a one-night stand, then they are looking in the wrong places or don't know how to connect with a "decent" man. There are millions of them out there.
I'm so sick of women constantly moaning, "All men are only after one thing." If you only hang with such types, blame yourself.
There's just as many men (including in this thread) who think women are only after hot, rich guys.
Whenever someone laments the lack of eligible people in the dating pool, my first thought is to turn to the person asking the question. I usually find the answer there.
Maybe there's something about your personality or looks that's turning off men. That's not likely to change by moving
well, again, I don't know what it is, so I guess I'll try getting a guy friend to let me know if he senses anything.
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Whenever someone laments the lack of eligible people in the dating pool, my first thought is to turn to the person asking the question. I usually find the answer there.
Maybe there's something about your personality or looks that's turning off men. That's not likely to change by moving
well, I guess I shouldn't categorize all men, but I have to say that most of the internet guys were after one thing, I'm not making that up. and when I'm at a nice restaurant enjoying dinner, surrounded by quality people, a married guy I know came up to me and point blank said he wanted to sleep with me. And I met an older gentleman I thought was nice, but then proceeded to tell me he just wanted a physical relationship with me. So, just because your surroundings are high-quality there can still be a douche or two in the bunch.
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Originally Posted by Ulysses61
Thank you, I agree 100%. Very few of the men I've known in my life are out for one night stands or hook ups. Have I known guys that only care about hitting n' quitting it? Sure, but very few. It has to come down to the type of men people surround themselves with. If a woman is ONLY meeting men who want a one-night stand, then they are looking in the wrong places or don't know how to connect with a "decent" man. There are millions of them out there.
I'm so sick of women constantly moaning, "All men are only after one thing." If you only hang with such types, blame yourself.
believe me, if I was any more out there, I'd be in outer space!!
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If you don't put yourself out there, you will never find someone.
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