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I could take all my money and leave her with bills unpaid, but thats not my definition of "maning up."
actually thats called letting your ex wife (who is cheating on you for gods sake) tend to her own business, why won't you just listen to what others are saying....leave her ALONE, you are not her rescuer anymore (probably never were), leave, take your money and go.
actually thats called letting your ex wife (who is cheating on you for gods sake) tend to her own business, why won't you just listen to what others are saying....leave her ALONE, you are not her rescuer anymore (probably never were), leave, take your money and go.
..because thats an emotional based, unnecessary reaction?
We work opposite shifts, have our own room, and rarely see eachother as is. Im also at a friends house until friday....
Rather than skrewing over and causing missed bills etc for her (us), i could just wait another two weeks and end things peacefully...
We work opposite shifts, have our own room, and rarely see eachother as is
And yet, you're all up in each other's business enough for you to know that she's doing harmful things. And who she's with. TOO MUCH INVOLVEMENT in each other's lives.
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. Im also at a friends house until friday....
Rather than skrewing over and causing missed bills etc for her (us), i could just wait another two weeks and end things peacefully...
Or you could do the right thing and keep paying the bills for her to live in HER house, while you bunk with friends or stay in a hotel for 2 weeks.
Admit it, you just don't WANT to leave.
ETA: I particularly like the advice about selling the house and splitting the money. That's very fair. And what most couples do.
And yet, you're all up in each other's business enough for you to know that she's doing harmful things. And who she's with. TOO MUCH INVOLVEMENT in each other's lives.
Or you could do the right thing and keep paying the bills for her to live in HER house, while you bunk with friends or stay in a hotel for 2 weeks.
Admit it, you just don't WANT to leave.
ETA: I particularly like the advice about selling the house and splitting the money. That's very fair. And what most couples do.
The living situation isnt the problem....
We have seperate rooms, work opposite shifts, and rarely see each other...
Me moving out is happening - its not something that needs to be discussed.
Why would we sell the house? She can afford it working full time - and she just happened to get a full time job...this isnt something any of you need to be concerned about. Bills are going to her name only and shes taking them over. Her and i discussed it, its settled - and isnt worth discussing on here..
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