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We have seperate rooms, work opposite shifts, and rarely see each other...
Me moving out is happening - its not something that needs to be discussed.
Why would we sell the house? She can afford it working full time - and she just happened to get a full time job...this isnt something any of you need to be concerned about. Bills are going to her name only and shes taking them over. Her and i discussed it, its settled - and isnt worth discussing on here..
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Yes, the living situation is in fact the problem. Well that and you can't take advise from those when you clearly ask for it.
Yes, the living situation is in fact the problem. Well that and you can't take advise from those when you clearly ask for it.
How is it a problem...?
You did read that im going to be out soon, right?
I admit it was a problem at one point...how many other guys here would be okay with your soon to be ex inviting guys over and skrewing on your bed? Using your pillow?
Hence why im moving out..
What are you arguing exactly? We appear to be in agreement....
I think you do have to eventually make a break from her, and it sounds like you are almost out of the house. I would recommend that you let someone know one more time (maybe her sister?) about the suicide threats, or maybe if she has a counselor... I don't know if I would go into details about her sex life other than to let them know she's spiraling and told you she's purposely courting danger. But I think it's prudent to make one last effort to make sure someone knows wat is going on and make it VERY CLEAR to all involved that you WILL NOT continue to be involved in any way. They are used to you handing it, and they have to be told in no uncertain terms that those days are over. Then you have to back it up with your actions. Once you have gone, don't listen to any more of her problems, don't come over, just don't. It feels cruel but you have to make a clean break or it will stay in this muddy grey area that is good for no one.
I think you do have to eventually make a break from her, and it sounds like you are almost out of the house. I would recommend that you let someone know one more time (maybe her sister?) about the suicide threats, or maybe if she has a counselor... I don't know if I would go into details about her sex life other than to let them know she's spiraling and told you she's purposely courting danger. But I think it's prudent to make one last effort to make sure someone knows wat is going on and make it VERY CLEAR to all involved that you WILL NOT continue to be involved in any way. They are used to you handing it, and they have to be told in no uncertain terms that those days are over. Then you have to back it up with your actions. Once you have gone, don't listen to any more of her problems, don't come over, just don't. It feels cruel but you have to make a clean break or it will stay in this muddy grey area that is good for no one.
Thank you =).
I think youre right about not seeing eachother after. That will be hard, but necessary.
The suicide threats have increased since i told them last..and the "trying to catch an std" and men from online, is new.
I was going to see how this week goes for her...hopefully i scared sense and reason into her. She was crying and visibly upset over the pictures of babies with herpes...hopefully she realizes that isnt what she wants, and the random sex hasnt been worth that risk.
Shes had no guys over since...
While im still technically living there, while all my things are there - id like to know when and who comes over.
Get your name off the mortgage too. Cut all financial ties and leave her to have at it. If she wants she can get a roommate to help pay for your house, but that isn't your problem.
Cut all financial ties. I would start the paperwork to get your name off the mortgage right now.
STOP BUGGING HER ABOUT HER SEX LIFE.... YOU ARE DONE WHO CARES?
Stop trying to control who she beds down and where. She probably knows she is being promiscuous and doesn't need you making snide comments about it. Leave it be. Be a damn man for once. A real man doesn't make passive aggressive snide comments like this. He moves the **** on.
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