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Yes - you are correct. Only stand up comics are capable of getting girlfriends. You sure do know how to interpret people's comments and advice! That's exactly what they are implying! There's really no hope for you.
Some women dislike those approaches and some women like those approaches. It's possible this 'women say damn near every form of approaching them is a terrible idea' is you focusing on the negative and applying it to all/most women as a way to excuse your failures.
Either way women aren't a hive mind and just because some women don't want to be approached at work doesn't mean it won't work on other women.
Perhaps what one is 'supposed' to do is approach whoever and whenever it is wanted as in my experiences most men don't listen to what women don't want when it means limiting their chances at having sex.
Perhaps what one is 'supposed' to do is approach whoever and whenever it is wanted as in my experiences most men don't listen to what women don't want when it means limiting their chances at having sex.
Don't put me in that group
When I sense any sort of awkwardness like my presence is not welcome, I run about 500 miles the other way
I'm not in the business of making anybody feel uncomfortable and if they don't want me to talk to them, I can sense that right away
The key isnt to 'approach' the key is to put yourself in a position to be standing next to her when light conversation can start. You might be on a supermarket line or a starbucks line and she could be behind you or in front of you or next to you...so, you're not 'walking up to her' you're just next to her and conversation breaks out. I would imagine that's a better way of meeting people rather than seeing someone across the room and making the long walk towards her.
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I enjoy almost everything and I'm willing to try anything that I'm not currently into. I haven't gotten into reading yet but I want to do that in the near future
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Originally Posted by BECLAZONE
Is there something about you, that you are not telling us?
A man's dating value to you is his ability to come up with a witty one liner on the spot?
Not "dating value", but "first impression" value. And though you may not comprehend it, that's exactly what you have been talking about.
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