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If he lies about his status he will lie again about something else. He is not single.
If he (but reverse for me) was truthful and the marriage is over I wouldn't have a problem with it.
I assume "separated" was an option? You decide if you want to date a liar. The decision would be easy for me.
I went on a date with a girl that listed herself as divorced. We went out on our first date and she told me that she was separated, but not divorced. When I asked why she lied, she stated she would get more responses if she listed herself as divorced. That rubbed me the wrong way. After about 2 weeks, we stopped seeing each other. I couldn't get over the idea of her lying about something like that, amongst other things.
If he's willing to lie about this, he's willing to lie about something else. Proceed with caution and see other people in the meantime. Don't make all your available time for him, because if you do, you will likely end up in a much worse place...
Stop it! lol If I'm attracted to a married/taken man, it's just because I find him attractive and he has qualities that I like. I don't think, "Ooh, I want him because he's married/taken!" I would find that same guy attractive if he were single.
Not consciously, of course not. No one is.
But I think you are subject to human nature and subconcious feelings like everyone else.
The point is, all else equal, would the same guy appear more attractive married or single?
Single. I wish my married co-worker who I have a huge crush on was single because he's gorgeous and I want him. It does NOT turn me on more just because he has a wife. She's an obstacle, not an aphrodisiac.
Since when is someone's marital status 'a need to know' basis? Talk about shady.
the need to know comes in when it get to the point of talking ** marriage * then its need to know kids wife ,allamony etc etc until then its good old fun and enjoyment with someone you care for
the problem as i see it is meeting thought the internet/ dating service, male & female folks in those clubs have got* every* reason to lie ,if they didnt they would,nt get dates ,the club/site whatever * manufactures *somebody you say you need to get the fee. you read so many horror stories about liasions that went wrong when the initial contact was thou a *** dating service ***and its extremly dangerous physically
it seems IMO the last resort in meeting somebody never used one and never will just go about the world doing your business and when you meet somebody face to face its a whole differant story (something clicks)
i agree you have to be outgoing ,able to approach a stranger, and not be shy when introduced not easy for everyone
now to address the *sex before marriage * get it if you can before you might not get it after LOL
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