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Old 06-17-2013, 07:44 AM
 
Location: Way up high
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What blows my mind is how many people who think that they have Any Business At All policing someone else' morality or behavior.

It's really not about that. I mean if my husband is sitting there bragging about how he's running around town and possibly giving me STD's or HIV and not giving a shyt about me or our kids then I'd definitely want to know. That way I can kick his ass out, take him for every penny he has currently and will ever have and then find myself someone else and move on.

Maybe you'd like to sit there in the dark and ignore the elephant in the room but not this woman
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Old 06-17-2013, 07:45 AM
 
Location: Texas
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It's really not about that. I mean if my husband is sitting there bragging about how he's running around town and possibly giving me STD's and not giving a shyt about me or our kids then I'd definitely want to know. That way I can kick his ass out, take him for every penny he has currently and will ever have and then find myself someone else and move on.

Maybe you'd like to sit there in the dark and ignore the elephant in the room but not this woman
This woman may have actually done the wife a favor in that it's pretty obvious why this divorce will be going down and who is at fault.
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Old 06-17-2013, 08:01 AM
 
Location: Bronx, New York
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The way she found out sucks but it's still the cheaters fault for putting her in that position in the first place. Heaven forbid the loser catch some disease and bring it home. This will hurt her but none of us are getting out of this life without being hurt in someway at some point.

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Old 06-17-2013, 08:19 AM
 
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It's really not about that.
It really is about that.

What it is about is not what she was filming and posting but that she filmed and posted.

I assume that you (and some of those that have posted on this thread) believe that if someone is unhappy about what your saying and the manner that your saying it they have the right to film you and post it online with a comment about you. It doesn't matter what you are doing, where your doing it, in what manner or who with, if someone doesn't like it they can film/photograph you and show the world via whatever source they choose. They can choose to print it, show it on TV, post it on the internet and no problem is to be had with this.

I disagree.
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Old 06-17-2013, 08:24 AM
 
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What blows my mind is how many people who think that they have Any Business At All policing someone else' morality or behavior.
What blows my mind is how many people are willing to cast judgment without knowing all the facts. Where is the original story? How far away was the woman? Are there any witnesses to support her story? Did we ever hear the men's side of it to know if they admit or deny that the woman overheard the conversation correctly or in context?

Or this just a theoretical exercise?
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Old 06-17-2013, 08:29 AM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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What blows my mind is how many people are willing to cast judgment without knowing all the facts. Where is the original story? How far away was the woman? Are there any witnesses to support her story? Did we ever hear the men's side of it to know if they admit or deny that the woman overheard the conversation correctly or in context?

Or this just a theoretical exercise?
I asked if it was audio taped or if there was any evidence of the conversation. Not saying the woman is lying but anyone can snap a photo, make it go viral and say whatever they want.

I saw the pic and I see only one guy but the woman claims she had to endure him and "his friends". Where are the "friends"?

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Old 06-17-2013, 08:48 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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It really is about that.

What it is about is not what she was filming and posting but that she filmed and posted.

I assume that you (and some of those that have posted on this thread) believe that if someone is unhappy about what your saying and the manner that your saying it they have the right to film you and post it online with a comment about you. It doesn't matter what you are doing, where your doing it, in what manner or who with, if someone doesn't like it they can film/photograph you and show the world via whatever source they choose. They can choose to print it, show it on TV, post it on the internet and no problem is to be had with this.

I disagree.
I agree completely.... this sitution sorta reminds me of the whole NSA issue right now.... not the exactly the same but brings it to my mind.
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Old 06-17-2013, 08:58 AM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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This woman may have actually done the wife a favor in that it's pretty obvious why this divorce will be going down and who is at fault.
We don't know that. Maybe the wives were cheaters too. This is why it's best to stay out of people's business, especially perfect strangers who have done nothing to you personally.
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Old 06-17-2013, 08:59 AM
 
Location: Gaston, South Carolina
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This is why it's best to stay out of people's business,
Or why you never talk about personall affairs within ear shot of total strangers. They were really dumb in talking so openly where tis lady could hear them. They put their entire lives out in the open, as well as their families and friends. They were hoping that no one would get upset about having their privacy invaded by such rude behavior. Some seem willing to give them a free pass. If you don't want your dirty laundry out for everyone to see, shut the hell up on public transportation!!! Or at least keep a private conversation private!
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Old 06-17-2013, 09:24 AM
 
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Does anybody really know the true story? The OP stated "2 hours bus or train ride". Seriously? If the details are so sketchy we don't know if it was a bus or a train, how reliable is the account of what was said?
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