Women :who do you love more ,your husband or kids

[YoungLove21]

Originally Posted by steelstress

so, you thought it had to be you or nothing? Guess you never did grow out of that self-centeredness.

What are you talking about?

[Braunwyn]

Originally Posted by highlife2

If you roll the dice and loose your into it for child support and dealing with baby momma drama for the rest of your life. At this stage in life I cant say I know any females I would trust my life with other than maybe my mom.

I believe you, but keep in mind that marriage is not an umbrella term/concept. The kind of marriage one person is not the same as the next.

[steelstress]

Originally Posted by YoungLove21

What are you talking about?

You seem to believe that because mom told you not to be the cause of your dad's heart attack (or whatever it was) and death, you think that meant she loved dad more? So the hell what? You think she should excuse your behavior because you are merely her child? How self-centered can you be? I'd have done whatever it was your mom said if my kid's lousy behavior caused so much stress on my spouse to put him in the hospital. Kid =/= get out of jail card. You're not that special to expect mom to just let slide. Did you ever apologize for that?

[monumentus]

Originally Posted by drake43

Women :who do you love more ,your husband or kids

I am not convinced "love" is something you can comparatively measure. There is no "more" or "less" there is just "different".

I am simply unaware of a single person who ranks people around them in terms of some scale of love like your question imagines.

Originally Posted by Black Jack22

A man and his wife become one flesh.

The bond between a man and a woman is the closest bond between two human beings.

Kids should never be more important than a woman's husband.

There is no "should" here. You are just engaging in fantasy. The bonds each of us form with others are different and there is no "should" about where a husband or children appear in that continuum.

In fact many women will do what is best for their children at all times and if at any point leaving their husband entirely was the right choice to make in that regard then many would do just that.

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

Actually some would say it should go like this...

God
spouse
children
extended family

While some see no reason to love an imaginary friend more than actual people in their lives. Basically I feel that the moment one makes a list like the above and attaches the word "should" to it then they are wrong from the outset.