How could I have so badly misread the signals from a woman at work?

[usamathman]

Originally Posted by Pokerman

So at work one day, this woman i had my eye on gives me what I thought a blatant stare that looked like she was interested. Then a couple of days later, she sees me again and makes a point of saying hello to me in passing and smiles.

Then I see her in town. She was sitting at at an outdoor cafe with what looked like to be her sister or something because of the resemblance. I waved at her and smiled and she gave me a big smile and waved back. Up until this point we've never spoken to each other.

So the next day, in order to open a line of communication, I sent her a text on her phone (from the company cell phones we all have) and said it was nice to see her yesterday and I signed the text with my name and in parenthesis specified I was the guy that waved at her.

That was a couple of weeks ago. I got no reply and she barely acknowledges me now when I see her. So now I just ignore her. But seriously .. WTF? If she wasn't interested, I'd think she'd reply something like, "Nice to see you as well. Have a nice day" and I would have understood that to mean not to follow up. But no reply at all? I feel like such an idiot.

SHE IS ALL ABOUT THE GAMES BUDDY.

YOU DID NOTHING WRONG. YOU SAW SOMETHING YOU LIKED
& WENT AFTER IT. Don't let one psycho cause you to question yourself.

On to the next one.

[Mikala43]

Originally Posted by LBomb

ONS and relationships, but especially ONS. Women who engage in ONS are honest about what they want. A hot guy. Women who choose unattractive men choose those men because they aren't desirable to other women which means less competition which means she feels secure in her relationship. If you don't date hot tall guys because of their conversation that's your call, but it's not the rule. Hot tall guys tend to have worse game because they don't need it. Just like hot women don't have to work as hard as ugly ones to get a man.

Well, you've got it all worked out. /lol

[LBomb]

Originally Posted by Mikala43

Well, you've got it all worked out. /lol

Yep. Hot women get ONS with attractive men and get into 'real relationships' with not so attractive men. I'd rather be the attractive man sleeping with attractive women than the not so attractive man settling for a woman who's "tired" of sleeping around with attractive men ( lol )