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Have you tried meeting people (potential new friends) at club meetings, volunteer experiences or other activities that you are interested in? Perhaps, alumni activities from your University or sporting activities or at the gym? Maybe join a walking or running club?
Think of the things that you enjoy doing and find a club or volunteer situation where you can do those things. Not only will you have things to add to your resume but may gain a few new friends or possible job contacts.
I am very sorry that this happened to you. Just so you know, this happens to EVERYONE at some point in time during their dating life. You did nothing wrong, I assure you. Women can be mean, shallow, and misleading. From your post, it sounds to me like this girl was looking for a guy that fell into a certain status; you mentioned the phone and car and her being put off but "lighting up" when you mentioned your dad was a doctor. That is a big red flag and it sounds to me like you picked up on it too.
It is also interesting that this woman questioned you about the relationship after only a couple of dates. Again, big red flag there. You two hardly knew each other and she was already pressing, besides, you really don't know a person after only meeting a few times. This is the kind of question that gets brought up after months or years of dating. Not days.
It sounds like your better off, to tell you the truth. You want someone who wants to be with you because they love you, not for how much money you have. If I were you, I would not pursue her at all. Let it go. You will be okay.
There is someone out there for you, not to worry. What is meant to be, will be, and happen naturally. If it isn't meant to be, don't force it. Again, let her go and move on.
You'll be alright. Sure, it hurts to lose someone right when things were getting started, but it's better for it to happen earlier than later.
So you did well enough to get a couple of dates, which means you've got something going for you.
I really wish I could send you a great big virtual hug that would make you feel a little better. I know it's hard to want a partner and have so many obstacles. But what else can you do but try and beat the odds?
I am very sorry that this happened to you. Just so you know, this happens to EVERYONE at some point in time during their dating life. You did nothing wrong, I assure you. Women can be mean, shallow, and misleading. From your post, it sounds to me like this girl was looking for a guy that fell into a certain status; you mentioned the phone and car and her being put off but "lighting up" when you mentioned your dad was a doctor. That is a big red flag and it sounds to me like you picked up on it too.
It is also interesting that this woman questioned you about the relationship after only a couple of dates. Again, big red flag there. You two hardly knew each other and she was already pressing, besides, you really don't know a person after only meeting a few times. This is the kind of question that gets brought up after months or years of dating. Not days.
It sounds like your better off, to tell you the truth. You want someone who wants to be with you because they love you, not for how much money you have. If I were you, I would not pursue her at all. Let it go. You will be okay.
There is someone out there for you, not to worry. What is meant to be, will be, and happen naturally. If it isn't meant to be, don't force it. Again, let her go and move on.
Who knows what she is looking for. My self esteem went up when she seemed interested.
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