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As a token good girl, I really despise the assumption that I go for bad boys and that I'm waiting to be "turned out" by some @sshole.
I had a teacher who intentionally put me next to the class "bad boy" because he thought my good would rub off on him, and I could make him a better person. No me gusta! That's the one thing I don't like about the "good girl bad boy" cliche is one of them is expected to change the other... Either the good girls GOODNESS will encourage the "bad boy" to be good, or the "bad boy" will become a bad influence and change the good girl for the worse.
When some people describe a "bad boy" they say cocky, arrogant, assertive, @sshole, and other crap.
I hear thug, dangerous, law breaking, scary, intimidating, @sshole, and other crap! From what I've seen, "bad boys" come with too much baggage and are very confrontational. Screw that!
"Bad boys" don't appeal to me. But guess what? Those are the types that usually want me! I can't attract the token nice guy.
I shouldn't have to be with a guy in hopes that he will change. He should be "good" from the start, why should I have to be the one to make him "better"?
As a token good girl, I really despise the assumption that I go for bad boys and that I'm waiting to be "turned out" by some @sshole.
I had a teacher who intentionally put me next to the class "bad boy" because he thought my good would rub off on him, and I could make him a better person. No me gusta! That's the one thing I don't like about the "good girl bad boy" cliche is one of them is expected to change the other... Either the good girls GOODNESS will encourage the "bad boy" to be good, or the "bad boy" will become a bad influence and change the good girl for the worse.
When some people describe a "bad boy" they say cocky, arrogant, assertive, @sshole, and other crap.
I hear thug, dangerous, law breaking, scary, intimidating, @sshole, and other crap! From what I've seen, "bad boys" come with too much baggage and are very confrontational. Screw that!
"Bad boys" don't appeal to me. But guess what? Those are the types that usually want me! I can't attract the token nice guy.
I shouldn't have to be with a guy in hopes that he will change. He should be "good" from the start, why should I have to be the one to make him "better"?
I agree with you completely. And good for you for knowing what you want.
The problem is, token good guys are typically going to he more quiet than the bad boys.
You will have to do some approaching if you want a good guy. Not all good guys are passive.
Be patient, I'm sure through networking or common interests you should be able to meet some non-bad boys.
Bad boys have nothing to do with thugs, machos or other hillbilly stuff which society generally thinks what makes a bad boy, especially in steakhouse going middle America.
What separates a bad boy from a good boy is this - bad boy causes unprecedented ruckus in the bedroom, whereas the good boy does library-quiet missionary, gravies and then refuses to take a shower to clean because he is already weak.
It boggles the mind that adults use the term "bad boy". Does a bad boy wear a motorcyle jacket and have a pack of smokes rolled up in his t-shirt sleeve?
Bad boys have nothing to do with thugs, machos or other hillbilly stuff which society generally thinks what makes a bad boy, especially in steakhouse going middle America.
What separates a bad boy from a good boy is this - bad boy causes unprecedented ruckus in the bedroom, whereas the good boy does library-quiet missionary, gravies and then refuses to take a shower to clean because he is already weak.
Actually, you've got it backwards. The bad boy gets his and rolls over leaving the woman unsatisfied, then leaves before she wakes up. The good guy leaves her quivering and stays for another round.
It boggles the mind that adults use the term "bad boy". Does a bad boy wear a motorcyle jacket and have a pack of smokes rolled up in his t-shirt sleeve?
Get used to it man.
People are obsessed with "nice guys" and "bad boys" here.
As a token good girl, I really despise the assumption that I go for bad boys and that I'm waiting to be "turned out" by some @sshole.
I had a teacher who intentionally put me next to the class "bad boy" because he thought my good would rub off on him, and I could make him a better person. No me gusta! That's the one thing I don't like about the "good girl bad boy" cliche is one of them is expected to change the other... Either the good girls GOODNESS will encourage the "bad boy" to be good, or the "bad boy" will become a bad influence and change the good girl for the worse.
When some people describe a "bad boy" they say cocky, arrogant, assertive, @sshole, and other crap.
I hear thug, dangerous, law breaking, scary, intimidating, @sshole, and other crap! From what I've seen, "bad boys" come with too much baggage and are very confrontational. Screw that!
"Bad boys" don't appeal to me. But guess what? Those are the types that usually want me! I can't attract the token nice guy.
I shouldn't have to be with a guy in hopes that he will change. He should be "good" from the start, why should I have to be the one to make him "better"?
"Those are the types that usually want me! I can't attract the token nice guy. "
You can, but theres a good chance you will get the bitter "Nice guy" who is resentful towards women and claims the world owes him his due
Do you live on a reality show? How are you not just a good girl but a token good girl?
The names..... Kawaii Kardashian.
Bye, doll!
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No me gusta! That's the one thing I don't like about the "good girl bad boy" cliche is one of them is expected to change the other... Either the good girls GOODNESS will encourage the "bad boy" to be good, or the "bad boy" will become a bad influence and change the good girl for the worse. 
